Monday, August 23, 2010

First pregnancy test - negative, second test - negative, havent had period in two months!! advice? help?

my boyfriend and i have been having unprotected sex (%26amp;pullingout, i know its not the best method but yeah) for the past three months that we have been together, i didn't get my period last month and it kind of scared me so i took a pregnancy test and it came out negative and well i missed it again this month so i took another one and that one came out negative too and its scaring me even more, ive been really tired, feeling sick all day long, dizzy, not feeling like doing anything, and hungry all the time, ive gained like 10 lbs in two months. i don't know what all that means and im not sure what i should do, anyone have any advice?First pregnancy test - negative, second test - negative, havent had period in two months!! advice? help?
while at home pregnancy tests can help the only way to be a 100% sure is to visit your doctor and get a test done. It isn't uncommon for at home pregnancy tests to show up negative depending on when you tested. From some of the things you has mentioned,sickness,tired and dizzy I suggest that you make an appt with your physician or gynecologist immediately. If you want to avoid getting pregnant then make sure to use some type of birth control method.First pregnancy test - negative, second test - negative, havent had period in two months!! advice? help?
Hmm...maybe you should contact the local Planned Parenthood office and set up an appointment. They'd probably only give you a pregnancy test too, but you could describe what kind of symptoms you're having and maybe they'll be able to identify what exactly is going on and get you a doctor.
well i know that my girlfriend has irregular periods where she doesnt get them every month but when she does they last for longer than a month...





but maybe if ur getting sick you should go to a doctor and maybe they could tell you if your pregnant if your affraid to tell your parents try to have a friend to drive you see if you can find out any information





i hope this helped you out some
It could be stress, but you really should be on birth control and use condoms. Unless your trying to get pregnant.





Go to the doctor they can tell you for sure if your pregnant or not.
Go to a doc or planned parenthood get a real test. You can have a false negative. Plus it would help ease your mind.
its a phantom pregnancy , u think u are coz uve had unprotected sex , but your not pregnant.
Go to the doctor, it could be something serious.
I'd suggest you go to the doctors. It could even be a sign of stress.
go to the doctor
you can have a false negative, so you need to go to the doctor for a blood test.





probably though, you are not pregnant, and its the stress of thinking you might be that is making you feel sick and even making you gain weight.





go to the doctor, but im willing to bet youre not pregnant.
You should go to the doc. and get a blood pregnancy test done. :) you could also have some sort of infection causing your period to be late or not come at all, if you do have an infection and your not pregnant that would explain you not getting a period. ... if you do not have an infection of any kind then the doc should be able to help you figure out what is going on :) good luck. xoxo

I have to make a graduation speech, but my speech needs to be longer. Any advice? Please help!?

Should I just insert a couple more words to make it longer??? I have to do it tomorrow, and I'm editing and practicing it right now. It needs to be 1-2 minutes long, and it almost reaches the time frame, but I don't want it to be to short. Any advice?I have to make a graduation speech, but my speech needs to be longer. Any advice? Please help!?
First of all, don't speak too fast (that's common in public speaking). Secondly, talk about experiences it school and why you love it (mabye teachers, classes, schoolmates). Also, use adjectives and mabye start off with a joke to get the audiences attention.

I need life advice, please help?

I feel like im drowning in my own life. My college career is falling apart. I'm a smart kid but I can not focus or even commit to classes and schoolwork. I am consistently turning to drugs and alcohol instead of facing my problems. I don't know if I can handle this alone anymore. I don't know exactly how to go about fixing my problems at this point. I'm lost.I need life advice, please help?
Hey..


I see u seem to be struggling to find what's ur purpose in life. Like, life is so empty, no fun, boring and etc. And that's why u turn into drugs and alcohol to give u the ';high'; and the adrenaline in ur blood running. But there is more than this in life. :)


Spend more of ur time doing something more fulflling or fun. Take up yoga or some exercise. This will make u sweat and releases stress and tension.





Talk to a close friend and relative.Tell someone u trust and ask them to help u and guide u. And u can even have posters or reminders pasted on ur wall saying.. ';Stop the drugs! Or u'll regret it!'; or whatever that would sorta impact you.





It's good that u take the initiative to ask for help here..but after we've given our advice..it is all UP to YOU.. to do it. You either DO it or SCREW it.





Your life is hanging on a thin thread. So you gotta make a good decision.


ALL THE BEST AND TAKE CARE! BE STRONG!


(and know that God's always with you.)


ps - i'm not trying to be religious or something..but it's this faith i've hold unto that keeps me alive. sorry if u're a non religious personI need life advice, please help?
You're going to need to give up the drugs and alchohol and have a talk to your professors about your academic performance issues. But, before you do go have a talk to a cousellor. In Australia university students usually have access to a range of mental health services. They are often free or available to students at a minimal cost. See if your college offers something similar and make an appointment to see them. Thats your first step to fixing your problems.
I read this once Watch your thoughts they become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character and your character defines your Destiny. the drugs and alcohol will impair your true self you are feeling the loss feeling like that because you are denying your true heart and soul desire that will fulfill your existence Stop all the negative habits and you will regain a positive disposition to life Good luck Ask for help school counsellor or exterior support
Kneel down, Have a heart to heart talk with Jesus Christ. He will deliver you from the alcohol and drugs. He has set many captives free. He set me free from verbally abusing people. He has set me free from the downfall of sanity. Here you go, try this:





Father in heaven, I know you hear me crying out, I cannot take anymore of the bad deeds being done to my body. I know in my conscience that the body is a temple of the holy spirit. I need you more than ever to fill me with love, compassion, and a sound mind. I am in need of spiritual wisdom. I know your ways are higher than my ways. Your thoughts are higher than my thoughts. I plead the blood you shed at calvery to attone for my sins. Now the blood is being applied in the name of Jesus, all bondage and chains be loosed in the name of Jesus, For it is written, For the truth shall set you free, your name Jesus is name above all other names, Your name is all in one. You have promised to protect your children, you have not seen your own forsaken or begging for bread. i pray in the name of Jesus Christ








AMEN








Try this prayer.





If you believe in your heart, it will slowly change you in a way that will run the doctors away.





I hope this helps out in great detail.
well maybe instead of asking people you dont even no


you should ask ur psychiatrist


for some adivice





and dont let drugs or alcohol get into ur life


other wise it might be to late





hope u get ur life back on track





xox
get help for the drug addiction





many college students feel the same way as you, they just might not openly admit it.
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  • Tumbling! I need to get in shape and get ready for tryouts ASAP! Advice & help?

    Tryouts are in like, four weeks. I've not gotten a chance to go to our schools few designated gyms that offer tumbling and trainging. One, because I have no ride, and two, I'm completely and utterly terrified. Not only have I never cheered, but I haven't been in gymnastics for a decent eight years.


    The bitter truth - I can't even cartwheels anymore. Nor can I handstand.


    Plusses - I'm smaller than five foot and less than 100 pounds, my friends, many of which cheered on last season's team, really want me to join and think I would make a great flyer. I've got great balance and with a little core training I believe I'd also make a great flyer. I'm also a rather good dancer, I take classes every day.





    I need tips on working my core muscles fast, learning tricks again (these girls can throw double back handspring roundoffs and all kinds of insane tumbles). My goal is at least a back handspring or better (varsity requirement). Advice, help, experience, fellow gymnasts %26amp; cheerleaders?Tumbling! I need to get in shape and get ready for tryouts ASAP! Advice %26amp; help?
    I would find a friend to take a tumbling class with, you could carpool.


    Ask the best tumbler or a good one for a private informal class.


    Talk to the coach. If you have no ride because of working parents or something, she will probably be sympathetic.


    There is cheerleading with minor tumbling. You could have parts in the routines that require less.


    Be good at everything else.


    Practice basic tumbles, like cartwheels, roundoffs, and handstands. Not anything more.


    See if there is an open gym day at the gym and if you can get a ride that one day. There are coaches there to help.





    If you ask for a specific tumble I can help, I've been a tumbler [not gymnast - tumbler!] for years and good at explaining.Tumbling! I need to get in shape and get ready for tryouts ASAP! Advice %26amp; help?
    geez that's long!
    HIP HOP ABS! AN HOUR AND A HALF EVERYDAY!!! WOOT!
    omg i'm in the EXACT same position you are right now. My tryouts are in three weeks though. i've been having my experianced friends come over everyday after school to help me with tumbles and stuff. just keep working at it !

    How to get my boyfriend to not cheat? i also need a mans advice. help!?

    my boyfriend of 2 years has always been so faithful to me, and it seems like all of a sudden something hit him and he wants other girls. he tried to break up with me so that he can be ';concentrate on school'; for a little while. then later he confessed he really wanted to mess with other girls, but knew he could never cheat on me. I think its his friends who have gotten to him because they're all dogs, and he's the only one out of the group that is settled down. hes my best friend and i already know im not gonna leave him. i already tried and i just cant do it. what do i have to do to make him want ONLY me again? do i sex the hell out of him till hes whipped again? if so, what can i do?


    HELP!How to get my boyfriend to not cheat? i also need a mans advice. help!?
    Be exciting, be yourself, that's all you can do. The fact of him concentrating on you is up to him and him only. Hes obviously curious about trying something new.. spice up your relationship... you know what he likes.How to get my boyfriend to not cheat? i also need a mans advice. help!?
    Um, theres nothing you can do. Despite all your efforts, he will do what he wants. He obviously doesnt love you enough if he feels he wants to be with other women. He is telling you to your face he wants to be with other women...he even tried breaking up with you so he doesnt cheat on you. Dont waste your time and energy. If you stay, be prepared for find numbers in his pockets, lipstick on his shirts, and scratches on his back.
    well i am a guy so i know wats wrong. if u have been holding out on him then u really arent giving him a reason to hang around. if not then he is probly doing this because he has been noticing other girls and is still being attracted to them. what u should do is try and do something that is going to keep him around have him fall in ,ove with u again.
    My boyfriend always told me that if he wants to cheat he will cheat and nothing will stop him. When he was in college he cheated all the time but we had a baby so somehow we still stayed togethrer threw it all. now it's been 13yrs but i never forgot what he said. there is nothing u can do to stop him.
    Let him get it out of his system. You need to go meet some guys too. I've been through this many times - getting myself all wrapped in one guy. It may take a while to find another, but you will. You've got to learn to control your emotions and realize love can be controlled. If you can't control it all the better reason to move on with life.
    You're going about this ALL wrong. No matter what you do, he is going to want to experiment with other girls, and won't be satisfied until he does. If he hasn't cheated yet, he most likely will. Drop the loser and move on, find someone who appreciates you!
    if your guy doesnt love you enough not to cheat, then hes not worth your time and faithfulness. i know you dont want to hear that, but there are better fish in the sea. maybe if you cheat he'll see how you felt when he cheated. but i'd break up with him.
    try sitting down and talking to him about it, if that doesn't work, try to ask him why he felt he needed other girls, and eventually you will know what to do with the whole thing, it should get better once the truth is out.
    There is nothing you can do to 'make' him want you. It sounds like he want to be free to experience other women. Let him. If you do not he will come to resent you.
    Sometimes people truly grow apart, and there's nothing you can do about that.





    However if he simply wants to be more satisfied sexually, you can help him out there
    Ironically, the only way to wake him up is to walk away. Men can be stupid that way. They won't appreciate what they have 'til they think they can't have it any more.
    You need to talk it out with him. If it turns out to be someone influencing him maybe he needs to distance himself from them.


    If it's himself changing then maybe he needs to grow up a bit.
    I'm sorry honey,if your boyfriend wants to play the field,there is nothing you can do to stop him.
    welll...theres nothing much you can do, just try to keep him faithful any way possible :\
    Once a cheat always a cheat..Dump the sucker and get one who has control over his pecker.
    When he's done having fun messing around, he'll come back to you.
    No man settles down before 30. If he tries he regrets it.
    try talking to him, sex isn't the answer
    Well, I have to say at least you guy has some morals. He did break up with you before he went out screwing around. There are probably many reasons he wants to go and try different girls. In time he will regret it. I know it will be hard, but let him have his fun. Try to not call or see him. Once he feels that he lost you, he will come running back. As far as the ';sexing him to death';, life has more to offer than just sex. Don;t get me wrong, sex is very important, but not what a relationship should be based on
    Why are u risking to disrespect yourself to sleep with him till he's whipped? He's been in a relationship for two years. That's two years with sex with the same person. He needed a break. Men and women do the same thing except men are quicker to do it since they run on a more sexual operating system where women operate on emotions. You cant MAKE him want you only. You have t omove on. When you do that, he'll come back out of jealousy and realizes what he missed. Works both for men and women. Just let him go if he wants other people then let him. Go live your life and he'll want to be back in yours. Sex whipping isn't good cuz he will probably do other girls on the side along with u
    Ok-- I don't know how old you are .. but you sound a little desperate. Where is your self - respect?? If he wants to leave -- BYE! It's that simple. Ok, technically.. it's not that simple.. but you cannot beg a man to stay with you!! It doesn't matter if its his friends, school, other girls.. whatever it is. He doesn't respect you knowing that YOU pretty much '; cant leave him'; . What does that mean? I've tried.. but I can't do it. That sounds so sad. You really need some self love and self respect. No one deserves to deal with someone who is debating being with them. Trust me- once he feels that You dont need him.. because you are this independent person.. he will second guess what hes saying.. Or, if not-- and he really wants to leave.. then he wasn't the one for you. I'm sorry.. but you sound really sad.. and I'm trying to help you! My logic is.. '; a man is going to do whatever he wants to do.'; Period. If he doesnt call, doesnt show up, doesnt want to be with you-- its b/c he didnt WANT TO. Dont believe all the other excuses. Good Luck
    Oh look it sounds like you guys are both young (well probably a whole lot younger than me) - if you love someone let them go...i forget the rest but basically its about letting someone go and if its meant to be they will come back. Depends on what you want. If you want THIS relationship where you will be just always wondering about your boyfriend and what he is up to (I mean REALLY he says that he wanted to mess with other girls and you think he wouldnt have sex with them...get real!!!) OR do you want to be with someone who you can trust. I think you know the answer to your question. Get rid of him, you are better than this. I certainly wouldnt be settling for second best. No matter what you think, sex might whip him again for a while, but its not gonna be forever and sure enough he will be off sniffing around some other chick. Move on. If HE is good enough for YOU it will happen.

    I need some Advice any1 help?

    Ive been seeing a bloke an he says he dosent know how far to take it but he knows he wants more, we have been txtin loads and when ur out he is very clingy if another man comes up to talk he gets jelousean takes me away.


    1 Problem He has a girlfriend. I know it wrong to see him.


    wht do u think?I need some Advice any1 help?
    hiya, its not right that he as 2 girls on the go.you need to ask him,why is he with you,when he as a gf.and he can't go on like that,as its not fair on you.he must choose between you and the girl.he seems very jealous of you,and it makes me think there is more to him.has his gf got a child,or pregnant.you need to ind the truth about him,before you get hurt.good luck.xI need some Advice any1 help?
    You need to think about yourself here, it is all well and good for him getting jealous and taking you away from people that seem interested in you, don't forget at the end of the day he has a girlfriend to go home to were you are not in a relationship so if you ask me he is just holding you back and I think your better off getting out there and finding someone else, think of your own feelings here and Im sure you deserve better than to be just someones bit on the side...best of luck x x
    you should never go out with a man if he is already with someone-hardly a good basis for a relationship? Jealous? he just scared you will wake up and smell the coffe and find someone who is young free and single-unlike him!!!
    firstly he does not have any right to be jealous if he all ready has a girlfriend think how you would feel if you did take it further and then he decided to stick with his girlfriend ,depends what your looking for just casual fun or something more real
    its not wrong that your seeing him. he just might be over protective when he is with you.

    The contraceptive pill mycrogon 30 . advice . help !?

    i have finished taking my 1st ever pack of mycrogon 30 and i am half way through my holiday . i have red that its safe to take the 2nd packet back to back . but my mum is very strict . she does not know i am on the pill and she always asks me when i am due for my period . so can i take the 2nd packet back to back and when iam supposed to be due on . i can take the 7 pill free days then . because that will be in the middle of the 2nd packet . or cant i do that ? x





    thanks xThe contraceptive pill mycrogon 30 . advice . help !?
    If you are running two packs together, you don't have any 7 day break. You finish one packet and then start the next packet the following day.


    You then have your 7 pill free days at the end of packet 2.





    You say you are half way through your holiday... so have you started the second packet already? If you have had more than 12hrs gap, between the end of pack 1 and the beginning of pack 2, then you're too late to start the second packet and will need to continue with your 7 pill free days as normal.





    Generally it takes your body about 3 months to get used to taking the hormones, so if you run your first ever pack together with the second, you may experience spotting or break through bleeding.The contraceptive pill mycrogon 30 . advice . help !?
    if you want to do that you have to take the 7 day break at the end of the second pack and not before or you will not be protected and may mess up your cycle
    you cannot do that if you are due for a period then you need one its a way of your body cleaning itself you should not stop this or you could get ill and reading what you read is wrong you cant do this.. although there is a form of microgynon that is for everyday use. so this is what you have probably been reading about.. if you don;t want your mum to know then you need your period.. hope this help :)
    Follow the instructions on the packet. Either take the pills and then have the 7 day break or do it back to back. Don't just have half a pack and then break. It won't be as effective.


    However, I do think that you ought to let your mum know that you are on the pill. If you were taken ill they would need to know any medication that you are on. If you are old enough to be taking the pill then you are old enough to be discussing it with your mum. If it is the fact that you are worried she'll know you are sexually active then tell her the doctor put you on it for period pain. But either way, keep the lines of communication with your mum open. It may be awkward at first but mums can be the best source of information sometimes!
    when i went on holiday, i was due to come on so i asked my doc if it was ok to carry on taking the pill and he basically said it was fine