Welli ended up back home afnd we both were single but she wouldnt talk 2 me at the time.....i sent her flowers by deliv and told her i was sorry and that ive had feelings for her...she invited me to come to her birthday party when i saw her and seemed to be happy with me...at her party I got drunk some things i shouldnt have about her friends after another fight a week afterthat which i dont recall...i didnt try talking to her again for 2-3 months later by then she started seeing someone else.I know i said stupid things to her but it was just being protective not really intentionally hurtful your all probably thinkingim nalcholholibut really not,just a little alchohol bring s out my protectiveness of her,i drink proably twice a month now so thats not an issue,i really dont mean it i wish i wasnt like that....so she seeing someone elese i respect that, she saw me at a party after she started seeing him was giving me smiles and seemed like she was following me around but io didnt say much but hi, didnt really try contacting her except on her birthday, never emailed imed or anything......she blocked me on aim months and months after last time i tried talking to her and now she wont accept my facebook request and isnt denying it either just letting it sit there....all her friends also give me strange looks when i see them her close girl friends too not the creeps i was so protective about...your like i did something terrible, i saw her 2 nights ago at the bar, i tried avoiding her she seemed to be around a lot...we made eye contact once and she gave me a smile, she also was standing behind me it seemed every time i looked at the bar,,,why wouldnt she try to avoid me if she hates me enough to block me on aim?? i mean she keeps playing games this has been years and years...shes got a boyfriend shouldnt she be tired of this? if your gonna block me wouldnt you stay the hell away from me if were in the same bar? it seemed like i was the one angry at the bar, i wanted to talk but since she blocked me i though mabye i shoudlnt...what should i do?Looong story! need girls opinions/advice! help!?
WHAT you sound very young.Looong story! need girls opinions/advice! help!?
Well if you wanna talk to her apologize again i assume but it sounds to me like you should really really stop drinking :) then you wont have problems
you need to talk to her or move on. stop waiting around for her.
best of luck
Honestly..you should move on with your life. Find someone new.
Alright, well she probably thinks you are a little stalker obsessed with her, which idk it just seems like you really care about her, but your feelings are coming out the wrong way. Maybe just lay off for a while, if she tries to talk to you then calmly explain everything thats been on your mind. dont try to really sound creepy or anything, because sometimes girls get freaked out but people like that. She has a boyfriend, shes moved on. its your time now. the past is the past, yes, you should have made a move on her when you had the chance.. but now you have learned a lesson and now in the future you will know not to let someone slip away. so my advice is to let it go, but if she contacts you then be calm about it. good luck
Just because a pretty woman smiles at you it doesn't mean she likes you. I think her smiles indicate that there are no hard feelings and her blocking means she doesn't want to be close to you. In other words, she's being friendly but doesn't want to be friends or anything else for that matter.
Go on with your life and get over this girl. She's going to be around so don't get angry every time she smiles at you but doesn't approach you. Her smiles mean nothing really so just live your life, smile back, and keep it moving.
I hope this helps.
talk to her. she's the only one who have the answers to all your questions. anyhow, are you sure she's the one rejecting your request on facebook? because there's a possibility that her boyfriend's blocking or rejecting friend requests from guys. another is that, her boyfriend might also be jealous of you because you and her are close and your a guy! dunno, all i could do is assume.
anyways, don't say sorry to her for loving her. you shouldn't say sorry to someone for loving them. just love them and don't pull yourself down.
just go and talk to her to put closure to everything. =)
I think she loves you because of the connection in the past. As a woman, I can say we love hard and it's real. She knows that things will never work between you which means you guys can't be together. I think you should just keep your distance and let her make all the moves. You have actually messed things up whether you realize it or not and now you have to let go. You will probably always have a piece of her heart and she will never admit it. So just let it go and don't bother her. I think you owe her that much. Oh, and just FYI - you may want to work on that alcohol thing. That just might be the one thing she wishes you would change and maybe, just maybe things will work out for you.
Well I don't know you or her, so I can't say for sure. But I know at least for me there are certain people that you think your really over and you think your done. But then once you see them in person, it reminds you of how much you love them and that you can't let go. I'm guessing she convinced herself she didn't love you anymore so she wasn't gonna play games anymore. So she blocked you and wouldn't accept friend requests. But then when she saw you at the bar, she remembered all the good times you had and how in love she was before. She probably missed you while you guys weren't talking. And maybe she was too embarressed to try to be friends again after all this time? If I were you, I'd call her (calling works better than email, IM, texting, ect for these kind of things) up and ask if she wanted to go to lunch or something as friends. Don't make it like you want to be her boyfriend, just be friendly.
I would continue to ignore her, eventually you'll get over her, or she'll come running back. Believe it or not The hard to get game is the most turn on, Just don't look desperate like your trying to hard when she's ignoring you or telling her friends bad stuff about you, then she'lll REALLY get sick of you, just act like you don't want her anymore, she'll come runnin
And when you drink,. just shut the hell up about her friends if you don't like her friends then you don't like her and this will always be a problem , just bite your toungue or don't drink around her
You've asked this question several times sounds like you're up to something
ok.
The problem is this. Your drinking. Her friends mean a lot to her and it sounds like they may have said some things to her to make her want to avoid you. I mean it happened at her birthday party, and that is pretty embarrassing.
I truly believe that you love her. And to see her move on, that is killing you. I think she loves you too. But she chose to move on. The reason for the blocking of the internet communication is simple. Evidence. If she lives with her boyfriend, she may not want him to find out that she is talking to you. Or she is not ready to communicate with you.
It sounds like this is a small town or something, maybe everyone knows what happened. And maybe you are like the black sheep of this town or your family. Whatever. But you have a bad rep.
She seems that she is young. she may not be able to think for her self and cares what others think about her and of you.
But she does love you.
What I suggest that you do, is write her a letter. Not on your puter but an actual letter. Admit to your feelings and admit to your faults. Do not make promises that you can not keep so be careful putting any down.
When you see her, give it to her, and tell her that it is important that she reads it.
Then leave her alone. No IMs, Emails, nothing.
She will have that letter to look over and over again. Until she can decide on what she truly want to do, without the influence of others.
If she does not come around after a few weeks. Its time to let her go.
Love her no matter what she decides.
Best Of Wishes!
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