Please let me know if I need to change anything. All feed back is greatly appreciated. Thanks!
**Reconcile all assigned accounts to ensure receipt of payment.
**Process wire transfers, lock-box payments, credit card transactions and live checks.Need help with a portion of my resume, any advice??? This is for Credit and Collection position.?
this sounds fine if your listing the general responsibilities of a past position. What yo might want to do is to bullet some items where you went above and beyond. For instance
Reconciled all assigned accounts verifying receipt of payment reducing increasing accuracy by 5% or whatever you could guess. Let them know the results of your work. what did you do to save time, money. these are things hiring man angers are looking for.
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Mother dog acting strange toward pup...need help/advice/sumn?
Okay here's the story...I took my pup to the vet because he had a broken jaw and he's been there for a week. He returned last night and the mother just came and sniffed him then walked away. Now she's been giving the other two pups attention like checking them for fleas and cleaning them but she just walks past the other pup. I just wanna know whats really happening...has she forgotten that he's her pup or what???Mother dog acting strange toward pup...need help/advice/sumn?
It is likely that your mother dog is a bit confused. She doesn't understand that you took her pup away to help him and now he has come back and smells all different, vet clinics smell very strongly of cleaning agents and other animals. He probably looks very different too being 1 week older! Dogs rely on their sense of smell a lot to identify other animals.
To help mum dog recognise her baby again I would suggest rubbing mum and the other two pups with a towel and then rubbing the broken jaw pup with the same towel, this will help make him smell more like the litter.
Give mum time to readjust to the reintroduced puppy, i'm sure she'll come round in time. Keep a close eye on the little fellow in the meantime, he may need some extra puppy milk or food depending on his age and whether he is feeding from mum still. Good luck.Mother dog acting strange toward pup...need help/advice/sumn?
usually when there is something wrong with one of the pups, the mother abandons them and leaves them alone (it's like this with a lot of animals). If this continues, they feeding the pup and raising it on your own with out the mother. Also try to put the pup near her and see what happens, just make sure she doesn't attack him. How old is the pup btw?
well, when you go 2 the doctor for one week, do you smell exactly the way u were? Maybe the mother just is unfamiliar with his new smell. wait till the pup gets his old smell back
She knows its her pup, put the pup under her nose so she can smell him. Stay with them both though incase mumturns on the pup.
For one, he smells and looks completley different. While she hasn't forgotten, she's not sure what to do with him anymore due to the scents, etc... She's confused. Also, by instinct, she knows something's wrong with the pup and her ';survival of the fittest'; instinct has probably kicked in. Most dogs will turn away a pup and focus all their attention/energy on the others if a pup is too small, sick, or injured. That's natural instinct.
I also recommend rubbing the mom (especially her nipple area, just be gentle) and the other two pups with a towel thoroughly and then doing the same with him. Also, you could try gently lifting his tail and placing his rear close to her nose. Regardless of whether or not WE like the idea, rear sniffing is one of the best ways for a dog to get to know another dog. This can help lessen her confusion by confriming that this IS her pup and may help reassure her to take care of the pup.
Keep him near her, and keep an eye on them. Don't push or rush it, as that can make her rejection worse and she'll turn away from him altogether. If you need to, remove the other pups for an hour or so and leave her with just him, with your supervision. Also, you may want to go and buy some puppy replacement milk to supplement him until she's willing to care for him again. I'd get a couple cans just in case she DOESN'T accept him back, which may very well happen. Best of luck to you and the pup!
By the way, if you DO end up having to hand raise the pup, keep him with mom while he's not eating so long as she's not acting agressively towards him. Even if she's not feeding him, this could give her a chance to teach him CRUCIAL puppy lessons that all pups need from their mothers that humans just can't seem to replace. Such as biting, food boundaries, etc... He'll need these in order to be a slightly better behaved puppy in the future. Again, good luck to you both!
EDIT: Given that the pup is two months old, this is more or less normal. She's more then likely wheening the pups altogether now. The pup's age can also be a factor in why she's ignoring this pup. At this age, you may see her doing it with the other two as well. At this age, this is more or less normal.
It is likely that your mother dog is a bit confused. She doesn't understand that you took her pup away to help him and now he has come back and smells all different, vet clinics smell very strongly of cleaning agents and other animals. He probably looks very different too being 1 week older! Dogs rely on their sense of smell a lot to identify other animals.
To help mum dog recognise her baby again I would suggest rubbing mum and the other two pups with a towel and then rubbing the broken jaw pup with the same towel, this will help make him smell more like the litter.
Give mum time to readjust to the reintroduced puppy, i'm sure she'll come round in time. Keep a close eye on the little fellow in the meantime, he may need some extra puppy milk or food depending on his age and whether he is feeding from mum still. Good luck.Mother dog acting strange toward pup...need help/advice/sumn?
usually when there is something wrong with one of the pups, the mother abandons them and leaves them alone (it's like this with a lot of animals). If this continues, they feeding the pup and raising it on your own with out the mother. Also try to put the pup near her and see what happens, just make sure she doesn't attack him. How old is the pup btw?
well, when you go 2 the doctor for one week, do you smell exactly the way u were? Maybe the mother just is unfamiliar with his new smell. wait till the pup gets his old smell back
She knows its her pup, put the pup under her nose so she can smell him. Stay with them both though incase mumturns on the pup.
For one, he smells and looks completley different. While she hasn't forgotten, she's not sure what to do with him anymore due to the scents, etc... She's confused. Also, by instinct, she knows something's wrong with the pup and her ';survival of the fittest'; instinct has probably kicked in. Most dogs will turn away a pup and focus all their attention/energy on the others if a pup is too small, sick, or injured. That's natural instinct.
I also recommend rubbing the mom (especially her nipple area, just be gentle) and the other two pups with a towel thoroughly and then doing the same with him. Also, you could try gently lifting his tail and placing his rear close to her nose. Regardless of whether or not WE like the idea, rear sniffing is one of the best ways for a dog to get to know another dog. This can help lessen her confusion by confriming that this IS her pup and may help reassure her to take care of the pup.
Keep him near her, and keep an eye on them. Don't push or rush it, as that can make her rejection worse and she'll turn away from him altogether. If you need to, remove the other pups for an hour or so and leave her with just him, with your supervision. Also, you may want to go and buy some puppy replacement milk to supplement him until she's willing to care for him again. I'd get a couple cans just in case she DOESN'T accept him back, which may very well happen. Best of luck to you and the pup!
By the way, if you DO end up having to hand raise the pup, keep him with mom while he's not eating so long as she's not acting agressively towards him. Even if she's not feeding him, this could give her a chance to teach him CRUCIAL puppy lessons that all pups need from their mothers that humans just can't seem to replace. Such as biting, food boundaries, etc... He'll need these in order to be a slightly better behaved puppy in the future. Again, good luck to you both!
EDIT: Given that the pup is two months old, this is more or less normal. She's more then likely wheening the pups altogether now. The pup's age can also be a factor in why she's ignoring this pup. At this age, you may see her doing it with the other two as well. At this age, this is more or less normal.
Need help drawing short hair for manga characters...any advice or tutorials?
I always have trouble drawing manga guys with short hair (and muscles, come to think of it). What are some good tutorials on the net that will teach me or aid me in drawing these two things? They would be much appreciated!Need help drawing short hair for manga characters...any advice or tutorials?
I found this on Google search. It's a bunch of different hairstyles.
http://www.cablenet.ne.jp/~japanime/tuto鈥?/a>
I hope it helps.
Keep drawing, there are a lot of manga instruction books at your local library too. So if you like try looking into that. Don't be afraid to expiriment. Also try looking at real photographs of people. Really take the time to look at the way each lock of hair falls or flows. :) Also, learn from the masters. Even the really old ones who drew realistic, lol.Need help drawing short hair for manga characters...any advice or tutorials?
go to youtube and type in miki falls, its a manga or anime, a guy paints and sketches them.
I found this on Google search. It's a bunch of different hairstyles.
http://www.cablenet.ne.jp/~japanime/tuto鈥?/a>
I hope it helps.
Keep drawing, there are a lot of manga instruction books at your local library too. So if you like try looking into that. Don't be afraid to expiriment. Also try looking at real photographs of people. Really take the time to look at the way each lock of hair falls or flows. :) Also, learn from the masters. Even the really old ones who drew realistic, lol.Need help drawing short hair for manga characters...any advice or tutorials?
go to youtube and type in miki falls, its a manga or anime, a guy paints and sketches them.
I need a little advice.. Help?
This may be a weird question but... I`m moving to WA. And I`m scared that when I get there none of my boyfriends friends/workers/family will like me? I am also a very jealous person... I`m worried about what his family is going to think of me... They are Native American and they think very different then my family does... I have my lip pierced and and I color my hair wacky colors... I have also been a cutter... I smoke cigarettes and mostly just hate life... But I`m very much in love with my boyfriend.. But I`m not sure his family will love me... My family likes him... What should I do? PS. my boyfriend says to ignore thoses feelings :(I need a little advice.. Help?
You are what you are.
dont try and impress anyone.
just be yourself
im sure thats why your bf fell in love with you because your just you
so his parents should like you to if they dont then thats there problem nots your
just be nice and not ignorant and dont be nervous about the things you wear etc because thats just you being comfortable
plzzz answer my question
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ampkl0.Hce7BRH6bvNsTZtXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20081107174309AArmUBZgold makeup
You are what you are.
dont try and impress anyone.
just be yourself
im sure thats why your bf fell in love with you because your just you
so his parents should like you to if they dont then thats there problem nots your
just be nice and not ignorant and dont be nervous about the things you wear etc because thats just you being comfortable
plzzz answer my question
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ampkl0.Hce7BRH6bvNsTZtXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20081107174309AArmUBZ
Pregnancy question...someone with advice help?
My cycle (for February) started a day early but only lasted three days, which my cycle was light instead of heavy like usually. Lately, I have been a lil moody and my breast have been sore but not painful. The funny thing is my cousin is pregnant and she lives with me, so I look at her syptoms and compare mine to hers, I feel nausea but never actually throwing up. My cycle (for March) is due to come Monday. Is it best to wait to take a pregnancy test for accurate readings?
Note: I did have unprotected sex in January! A whole week!Pregnancy question...someone with advice help?
If you get a more sensitive test (the sensitivity of the test is on the box) you should get a result this close to your next period.
If your cycle in february was an implantation bleed the pregnancy should certainly show up in a test. It does sound a bit prolonged for an implantation bleed though.
Note: I did have unprotected sex in January! A whole week!Pregnancy question...someone with advice help?
If you get a more sensitive test (the sensitivity of the test is on the box) you should get a result this close to your next period.
If your cycle in february was an implantation bleed the pregnancy should certainly show up in a test. It does sound a bit prolonged for an implantation bleed though.
23/m - i need advice/help, please?
i lost a woman that i loved dearly. i never felt like i deserved her love - anytime she wanted me to comfort her, this painful feeling came over me - like ';you know how ugly you are inside, how dare you love her back';. i couldnt even have sex with her - i felt i was undeserving....i was so rude to her at times argh
i spent a year trying to make things right, and at the end, she tried to end it civily, and i became a really horrible human being.
i feel numb.
the year she was in my life, i was verbally abused at work (constantly), kicked out of my house, she even walked all over me (i let her, to save the relationship) - i never feel like im worth fighting for.
and after all this, after losing her - i cant concentrate, my old friends are distancing themselves from me, my family is fed up with me.
i have to go see my doctor in secret. my family doesnt want/know im going to a psychatrist.
im so alone. i dont feel like a man, i know it - but im so blank.23/m - i need advice/help, please?
Everyone deserves to be loved! You are not alone. And honestly I appreciate you reaching out and asking for more help even if it is here as opposed to an online support group for people who need mental support. You did a wonderful thing by asking for help even if your family cannot back you up on it. Everyone needs help sometime in their lives for some reason. Just too many people cannot afford it or will accept help even if they had the means to get it. There is still too much stigma attached to seeing a counselor, psychiatrist or psychologist in this day and age.
I struggle with this all of the time. It is so hard for me to accept being loved by someone who seems so much better then I am.
Some people for reasons we may not fully understand always tend to be scared of others close to them going to see a psych. All too often people are uneasy with the thought of people needing mental help. When I was first diagnosed with borderline personality disorder I hid it from everyone as best as I could. What that caused me to do was have panic attacks due to my anxiety levels being way out of control.
The truth of the matter is that you need to look at why you think you are ugly inside. You need to keep in mind people make mistakes, some people make a lot of them. You have to be able to forgive yourself for the mistakes you have made and try not to make them again.
People could not understand my instant anger or agitation. Nor could they understand why I kept to myself a good portion of the time. What I was trying to do was make sure people did not see me at my really bad times. I was 25 when I was finally diagnosed. Mom knew something was not right with me and would get angry back at me for me being angry for what seemed like no reason to her.
I have been on 100mg Zoloft for the past 5 years. I can tell you if I do not take my medication for two days by the end of the second day I am so annoyed with anything and everything God could be standing in front of me telling me I am going to heaven and I would yell at him for being my way of getting to wherever I was going to. Know what I mean? But each and every day, no one would know anything was wrong with me when I take my medication.
Did your psych put you on meds? If so, it takes 4-6 weeks before they fully kick into gear. You may need them adjusted or a different medication. It took me several (5 at weeks each minimum before that med was changed) medications for me to find one that really works for me with little side effects.
I hope this helps. IF you like you can email me and I will be glad to chat with you more. Sometimes it even helps just to know that you are not alone in how you feel. Best wishes for good times to come soon for you.
i spent a year trying to make things right, and at the end, she tried to end it civily, and i became a really horrible human being.
i feel numb.
the year she was in my life, i was verbally abused at work (constantly), kicked out of my house, she even walked all over me (i let her, to save the relationship) - i never feel like im worth fighting for.
and after all this, after losing her - i cant concentrate, my old friends are distancing themselves from me, my family is fed up with me.
i have to go see my doctor in secret. my family doesnt want/know im going to a psychatrist.
im so alone. i dont feel like a man, i know it - but im so blank.23/m - i need advice/help, please?
Everyone deserves to be loved! You are not alone. And honestly I appreciate you reaching out and asking for more help even if it is here as opposed to an online support group for people who need mental support. You did a wonderful thing by asking for help even if your family cannot back you up on it. Everyone needs help sometime in their lives for some reason. Just too many people cannot afford it or will accept help even if they had the means to get it. There is still too much stigma attached to seeing a counselor, psychiatrist or psychologist in this day and age.
I struggle with this all of the time. It is so hard for me to accept being loved by someone who seems so much better then I am.
Some people for reasons we may not fully understand always tend to be scared of others close to them going to see a psych. All too often people are uneasy with the thought of people needing mental help. When I was first diagnosed with borderline personality disorder I hid it from everyone as best as I could. What that caused me to do was have panic attacks due to my anxiety levels being way out of control.
The truth of the matter is that you need to look at why you think you are ugly inside. You need to keep in mind people make mistakes, some people make a lot of them. You have to be able to forgive yourself for the mistakes you have made and try not to make them again.
People could not understand my instant anger or agitation. Nor could they understand why I kept to myself a good portion of the time. What I was trying to do was make sure people did not see me at my really bad times. I was 25 when I was finally diagnosed. Mom knew something was not right with me and would get angry back at me for me being angry for what seemed like no reason to her.
I have been on 100mg Zoloft for the past 5 years. I can tell you if I do not take my medication for two days by the end of the second day I am so annoyed with anything and everything God could be standing in front of me telling me I am going to heaven and I would yell at him for being my way of getting to wherever I was going to. Know what I mean? But each and every day, no one would know anything was wrong with me when I take my medication.
Did your psych put you on meds? If so, it takes 4-6 weeks before they fully kick into gear. You may need them adjusted or a different medication. It took me several (5 at weeks each minimum before that med was changed) medications for me to find one that really works for me with little side effects.
I hope this helps. IF you like you can email me and I will be glad to chat with you more. Sometimes it even helps just to know that you are not alone in how you feel. Best wishes for good times to come soon for you.
Im really confused, please advice/help?!?
well im in high school and i broke up with my boyfriend (of about 8 1/2 months) about 3 months ago because i didnt feel the same..and ever since then its like i dont know what to do or just things feel kinda werid and like im juss goin day by day.. but ive kinda bein fliriting with this one guy who isnt the cutest but he kinda seems lik a good guy but im not even sure if im attracteded to him..???idk wats going on with me??Im really confused, please advice/help?!?
I THINK ITS JUST A STAGE IN LIFE WE ALL GO THRU ... TRUST ME I BEEN THERE,... BUT DONT WORRY YOU JUST CONFUSED AND BREAKIN UP WITH YOUR EX CAN MAKE U LIKE JUST ABOUT ANY GUY WHO TREATS U RIGHT... EVEN IF THE GUY ISNT ATTRACTIVE JUST BC HIS NICE U'LL THINK THAT U LIKE HIM... IM NOT SAYIN NOT TO GO FOR HIM BUT I HONESLTY DONT THINK U TRULY LIKE THIS NEW GUYIm really confused, please advice/help?!?
Your a teenager, thats all. :) Give it a few more years, and I promise you'll be a bit more comfortable in your skin, boyfriend or not.
thats the same thing thats happening to me! =[
I THINK ITS JUST A STAGE IN LIFE WE ALL GO THRU ... TRUST ME I BEEN THERE,... BUT DONT WORRY YOU JUST CONFUSED AND BREAKIN UP WITH YOUR EX CAN MAKE U LIKE JUST ABOUT ANY GUY WHO TREATS U RIGHT... EVEN IF THE GUY ISNT ATTRACTIVE JUST BC HIS NICE U'LL THINK THAT U LIKE HIM... IM NOT SAYIN NOT TO GO FOR HIM BUT I HONESLTY DONT THINK U TRULY LIKE THIS NEW GUYIm really confused, please advice/help?!?
Your a teenager, thats all. :) Give it a few more years, and I promise you'll be a bit more comfortable in your skin, boyfriend or not.
thats the same thing thats happening to me! =[
Love is confusing. Any advice? Help.?
I sent this to the girl i still love to this day:
Well, your probaly wondering why i'm sendin you a long ole message. i am too. you told me the other day that you dont know why we see eachother and stuff cause i didnt know either. well, i started tryin to go back to the beginning when i first saw you sittin there with ashley across from me and brandon in the rec hall. i nudged brandon and said that ones mine and the other ones yours. i didnt know how that would end up. all i knew was that you were pretty. then i realized there was a dance and my mind started spinnin and i was to shy to ask you to go then so i made some guy do it for me. you said ';yeah ok.'; well we ended up dancin 7 times. that was the greatest feeling to have. just me and you out there slow dancin. then, we danced one last time to that awful song that haunts me still today. suddenly i realized i was goin home in the mornin. a million things were goin through my mind at that point and i knew i had to get in touch with you. i kept askin ashley for your number and she just kept tellin me that you already had a boyfriend. i was still determined though so i wrote down my number and was goin to give it to you before i left but was never able to give it to you. i cried all the way home. i could only hope to see you again in another year. that was going to be an eternity for me. no pictures, no way to call you, i was lost. i had a girlfriend but i just couldnt quit thinkin about you. well, the next year rolled around sure enough and i found out that you didnt really feel anything for me. you just sorta felt sorry for me. i didnt know how to accept it at that point in time. i was mad at you. my feelings for you were mixed and as bad as i wanted you, i tried to see you as a bad person but i couldnt help but remind myslef of how you had changed from the year before. yeah i was just so obsessed with you then that i couldn't even think straight. i ended up dancin with sara beth to say the least. i was still a little bit convinced that what we had done the year before was really something amazing. the dance was coming to a close when they put on that last, awful, song. i looked your way. you had another guy that you were dancing with. i lost it. i went out back and just started thinking about what all of it meant. i was trying to soak up my tears but i couldnt. i couldnt have the most special girl in the world and i was done. that year was followed by lots of soul searching. i had your number and i texted you and talked to you a lot. you told me you were sorry a lot. and i just didnt know what to say. i just wanted to love you. i began to get excited about seeing you at camp. sure enough the time came and i saw you and just stared. you came to hug me and i only wished that you could have known how many times i had dreamed that little moment. we spent a lot of time together and i wasnt smart enough to realize that this could very well be the last time i'd ever see you. i didnt express my feelings for you. i just wanted you to like me, think i was cool, be my friend. i stayed awake till dawn just thinkin of what i should do the next day and second guessing myself. those were the shortest days of my life. and they all lead up to the dance that was promised to me. i was nervous as ever for absolutely no reason at all. you looked beautiful. we danced to a song or two but they didnt matter. that last song did me in. every word of that song described what i felt. i had held everyhthing when i held you. i looked at you. all i ever wanted, all i would never have, stood in my arms. the song played on and the tears began to well up. i fought them back and the song ended. back in the cabin was terrible for me. i sat there staring into darkness. what else was there to think about?? YOU. what was i going to do? die? i was never going to see you again. no more dances. no more Miranda. i thought it was slightly possible to see you again but i wouldnt see you like that. not in my arms. not staring back at me. i know you didnt feel half what i felt but it didnt matter to me. i had spent careful time with the girl of my dreams. that was the upside. there wasnt much on the upside though. the downside was endless. i was overwhelmed with feeling. i cried and cried. nothing could make me feel that kind of hurt. nothing but love. this was the worst part of all. i loved you with every bit of myself and you didn't love me back. it was no longer just some crazy feelings. i really loved you. i had accumulated a lot of feeling for you and i dont know how. why would god do this? why would he hold the girl of me dreams in front of me? everytime i tried to get you he would just take you away. i dont understand myself anymore. im just so caught up with the thought of never being with you. i know that the events we've been through mean something.
So, why do we need to see eachother? I honestly dont know. Do i want to see you? yes i do. would it be good for me? probaLove is confusing. Any advice? Help.?
TOO LONG i don't think she'll read it ........
Well, your probaly wondering why i'm sendin you a long ole message. i am too. you told me the other day that you dont know why we see eachother and stuff cause i didnt know either. well, i started tryin to go back to the beginning when i first saw you sittin there with ashley across from me and brandon in the rec hall. i nudged brandon and said that ones mine and the other ones yours. i didnt know how that would end up. all i knew was that you were pretty. then i realized there was a dance and my mind started spinnin and i was to shy to ask you to go then so i made some guy do it for me. you said ';yeah ok.'; well we ended up dancin 7 times. that was the greatest feeling to have. just me and you out there slow dancin. then, we danced one last time to that awful song that haunts me still today. suddenly i realized i was goin home in the mornin. a million things were goin through my mind at that point and i knew i had to get in touch with you. i kept askin ashley for your number and she just kept tellin me that you already had a boyfriend. i was still determined though so i wrote down my number and was goin to give it to you before i left but was never able to give it to you. i cried all the way home. i could only hope to see you again in another year. that was going to be an eternity for me. no pictures, no way to call you, i was lost. i had a girlfriend but i just couldnt quit thinkin about you. well, the next year rolled around sure enough and i found out that you didnt really feel anything for me. you just sorta felt sorry for me. i didnt know how to accept it at that point in time. i was mad at you. my feelings for you were mixed and as bad as i wanted you, i tried to see you as a bad person but i couldnt help but remind myslef of how you had changed from the year before. yeah i was just so obsessed with you then that i couldn't even think straight. i ended up dancin with sara beth to say the least. i was still a little bit convinced that what we had done the year before was really something amazing. the dance was coming to a close when they put on that last, awful, song. i looked your way. you had another guy that you were dancing with. i lost it. i went out back and just started thinking about what all of it meant. i was trying to soak up my tears but i couldnt. i couldnt have the most special girl in the world and i was done. that year was followed by lots of soul searching. i had your number and i texted you and talked to you a lot. you told me you were sorry a lot. and i just didnt know what to say. i just wanted to love you. i began to get excited about seeing you at camp. sure enough the time came and i saw you and just stared. you came to hug me and i only wished that you could have known how many times i had dreamed that little moment. we spent a lot of time together and i wasnt smart enough to realize that this could very well be the last time i'd ever see you. i didnt express my feelings for you. i just wanted you to like me, think i was cool, be my friend. i stayed awake till dawn just thinkin of what i should do the next day and second guessing myself. those were the shortest days of my life. and they all lead up to the dance that was promised to me. i was nervous as ever for absolutely no reason at all. you looked beautiful. we danced to a song or two but they didnt matter. that last song did me in. every word of that song described what i felt. i had held everyhthing when i held you. i looked at you. all i ever wanted, all i would never have, stood in my arms. the song played on and the tears began to well up. i fought them back and the song ended. back in the cabin was terrible for me. i sat there staring into darkness. what else was there to think about?? YOU. what was i going to do? die? i was never going to see you again. no more dances. no more Miranda. i thought it was slightly possible to see you again but i wouldnt see you like that. not in my arms. not staring back at me. i know you didnt feel half what i felt but it didnt matter to me. i had spent careful time with the girl of my dreams. that was the upside. there wasnt much on the upside though. the downside was endless. i was overwhelmed with feeling. i cried and cried. nothing could make me feel that kind of hurt. nothing but love. this was the worst part of all. i loved you with every bit of myself and you didn't love me back. it was no longer just some crazy feelings. i really loved you. i had accumulated a lot of feeling for you and i dont know how. why would god do this? why would he hold the girl of me dreams in front of me? everytime i tried to get you he would just take you away. i dont understand myself anymore. im just so caught up with the thought of never being with you. i know that the events we've been through mean something.
So, why do we need to see eachother? I honestly dont know. Do i want to see you? yes i do. would it be good for me? probaLove is confusing. Any advice? Help.?
TOO LONG i don't think she'll read it ........
Tap dancing move need advice/help?
I found a new place for me to do tap dancing. One of the moves is where u shuffle on the tip of your toes hold it for a while and go back shuffling or whatever the dance routine is. How can I do this whitout having to hold onto something to hold me up? sorry if it sounds confusingTap dancing move need advice/help?
r u talking about toe cramp rolls? if so then first practice holding onto a bar over and over and eventually you will be able to do the move without the bar. good luckTap dancing move need advice/help?
ok im in my 12th year of being a dancer and i dont know what you mean either, but for this certain step that youre talking about, youre probably not strong enough and need to practice. something you can try to make it easier is use the muscles in your legs and core to jump higher.
you have to ingage your abs, and just about every muscle in your body and you will be able to keep up. just squeze your muscles tight and most importantly hold your center! do this and you will be able to do it in no time! tap dancing can be quite diffiuclt so if you can't do it right away, dont be discouraged!! goood luck! :)
Okay, Im a dancer, and have been for 17 years and I have NO idea what youre saying. Be more specific please. Are you flapping and not shuffling? F-lap F-lap F-lap. If youre constantly shuffling, its a shuffle step shuffle step in which case you should have no problem keeping yourself up. Flaps are a half a shuffle that allow you to swap feet without stopping to step before your transition.
It's just like being on pointe. Make sure that you have a strong box in your tap shoes, and that you're holding yourself as if you were on pointe in ballet class.
r u talking about toe cramp rolls? if so then first practice holding onto a bar over and over and eventually you will be able to do the move without the bar. good luckTap dancing move need advice/help?
ok im in my 12th year of being a dancer and i dont know what you mean either, but for this certain step that youre talking about, youre probably not strong enough and need to practice. something you can try to make it easier is use the muscles in your legs and core to jump higher.
you have to ingage your abs, and just about every muscle in your body and you will be able to keep up. just squeze your muscles tight and most importantly hold your center! do this and you will be able to do it in no time! tap dancing can be quite diffiuclt so if you can't do it right away, dont be discouraged!! goood luck! :)
Okay, Im a dancer, and have been for 17 years and I have NO idea what youre saying. Be more specific please. Are you flapping and not shuffling? F-lap F-lap F-lap. If youre constantly shuffling, its a shuffle step shuffle step in which case you should have no problem keeping yourself up. Flaps are a half a shuffle that allow you to swap feet without stopping to step before your transition.
It's just like being on pointe. Make sure that you have a strong box in your tap shoes, and that you're holding yourself as if you were on pointe in ballet class.
NEED A DR'S ADVICE/HELP and women's opinions?
I KNOW THIS IS LONG, PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO READ THIS AND HELP ME OUT. THANKS.
Hi im 17 years old and i have a hydrocele. for those that dont know a hydrocele is a sack like mass that has abdominal fluid that went into it for one reason or another and didnt empty correctly, resulting in what looks like another ';ball'; in my sack. Its kind of embarassing to think about if a girl were to go down there and be like...why do u have 3 balls? so doctors my parents tell me one of my testicles took a long time to drop when i was an infant and they think this is the cause for it. but it only appeared when i was around 15. i did havea hernia at one point and i have seen a urologist. i got a ultrasound and the doctor examined the main hydrocele (which is about half the size of my testicle around, but still a little noticeable) and said i also have a very small, pea sized one as well. he said i shouldnt worry about them and that i wont need surgery unless they start to cause pain or get bigger. im not worried about the pea sized one cause not even i noticed it, but im just really self conscious about the bigger one and i want to know what you think i should do. personally i dont want it. and to the women, do u think i should get it removed? would u freak out if u saw that when u were with a guy?NEED A DR'S ADVICE/HELP and women's opinions?
your body is the way it is you cant help or change tht any girl that cant expept you for who you are is a ***** kick her to the curb and find someone elseNEED A DR'S ADVICE/HELP and women's opinions?
are you kidding ? lol leave them! :-)
you know what? I think that everyone has something that they are really paranoid about but really i think it would be a slightly amusing story. just be confident and laugh about it and girls will take the cue from you. if you start to be paranoid and insecure girls are gonna start acting the same way because you are cueing them to .. it is psychological.gold makeup
Hi im 17 years old and i have a hydrocele. for those that dont know a hydrocele is a sack like mass that has abdominal fluid that went into it for one reason or another and didnt empty correctly, resulting in what looks like another ';ball'; in my sack. Its kind of embarassing to think about if a girl were to go down there and be like...why do u have 3 balls? so doctors my parents tell me one of my testicles took a long time to drop when i was an infant and they think this is the cause for it. but it only appeared when i was around 15. i did havea hernia at one point and i have seen a urologist. i got a ultrasound and the doctor examined the main hydrocele (which is about half the size of my testicle around, but still a little noticeable) and said i also have a very small, pea sized one as well. he said i shouldnt worry about them and that i wont need surgery unless they start to cause pain or get bigger. im not worried about the pea sized one cause not even i noticed it, but im just really self conscious about the bigger one and i want to know what you think i should do. personally i dont want it. and to the women, do u think i should get it removed? would u freak out if u saw that when u were with a guy?NEED A DR'S ADVICE/HELP and women's opinions?
your body is the way it is you cant help or change tht any girl that cant expept you for who you are is a ***** kick her to the curb and find someone elseNEED A DR'S ADVICE/HELP and women's opinions?
are you kidding ? lol leave them! :-)
you know what? I think that everyone has something that they are really paranoid about but really i think it would be a slightly amusing story. just be confident and laugh about it and girls will take the cue from you. if you start to be paranoid and insecure girls are gonna start acting the same way because you are cueing them to .. it is psychological.
Moving durring HIGH SCHOOL!! ADVICE/HELP PLEASE!?
okay so im in the tenth grade. i absolutely love my school, my friends, and pretty much my life at the moment! Buuut...im moving wayy out of state :[ n i'd like to hear some of your experiences moving to a totally new place. How you met people and how you stayed in touch with your besties back home, and how to fit in i guess...i rlly just need as much help as i can get right now!
thanks :]Moving durring HIGH SCHOOL!! ADVICE/HELP PLEASE!?
well i had to move from japan to here a couple years ago and it is tough, but you will live. i was lucky and found two friends right away cause they live close to me. one is my best friend and the other became my boyfriend =]. i still keep in touch with my other friends viz email and myspace. i do miss them, but we have to move on with our lives. i visit about once a year, so its not that bad. good luck with your situation!Moving durring HIGH SCHOOL!! ADVICE/HELP PLEASE!?
well u can keep in touch with your friends through facebook i guess
and jus make a name for yourself in you new school from early...
fit in :D
thanks :]Moving durring HIGH SCHOOL!! ADVICE/HELP PLEASE!?
well i had to move from japan to here a couple years ago and it is tough, but you will live. i was lucky and found two friends right away cause they live close to me. one is my best friend and the other became my boyfriend =]. i still keep in touch with my other friends viz email and myspace. i do miss them, but we have to move on with our lives. i visit about once a year, so its not that bad. good luck with your situation!Moving durring HIGH SCHOOL!! ADVICE/HELP PLEASE!?
well u can keep in touch with your friends through facebook i guess
and jus make a name for yourself in you new school from early...
fit in :D
Using a diaphragm .. need advice.. Help!?
I gave birth 7 months ago and I decided to use a diaphragm cause i don't want to take any hormones. But i have been having some problems with it. first of all when i originally got sized , i was having problems keeping it in place and i would go check on it and it would be basically out so i went back to get a smaller size. now even with the smaller size it doesn't feel like its completely in place . Im using ortho flex,did anyone have this problem with this brand, where it doesn't completely stay in place?.. my second problem is that when i take it out the morning after i found that its somewhat painful/uncomfortable. could it be that my skin inside isn't completely healed since i gave birth 7 months ago.. i had a pretty bad repair. any advice would be appreciated thanksUsing a diaphragm .. need advice.. Help!?
dude if you don't want to get pregnant just get an IUD its totally safe and you won't have to worry bout it falling out and you can keep it inside of you for up to five years. You just have to check it every month to make sure it is still there. I've had it for l 2 years now and i haven't had any problems.Using a diaphragm .. need advice.. Help!?
I have used diaphragms a lot in my distant past so I understand what you are dealing with.
However, I feel that only a good gyn doctor can help you with this and effectively answer your question. I think that your doctor you got the diaphragms from is inept as he/she ought to be able to provide you with a properly fitting diaphragm and be able to see what the problem is. You need to change doctors and find one that can tell you why these two diaphragms didn't fit properly. There is a reason why they didn't. Either they are both the wrong size, or there may be something about you physically that makes either those ones not fit, or all diaphragms not fit. I had to stop using diaphragms because as I aged my physical area there changed so that no diaphragms could fit me! This was a big shock. Again, a good doctor could tell you if diaphragms can in fact work for you and if you just are getting the wrong sizes, and if your body is such that it cannot hold a diaphragm, he can tell you what alternative birth control methods you might be able to use other than hormones. You are right, birth control pills are dangerous.
Don't leave it in longer than the time recommended. I also use a diaphragm and gave birth 7 mos ago.
With my first son I had an episiotomy and it hurt for almost a year so that is possible.
Did the dr have you put it in in the office and then check to make sure placement and fit was good? They should do that.
dude if you don't want to get pregnant just get an IUD its totally safe and you won't have to worry bout it falling out and you can keep it inside of you for up to five years. You just have to check it every month to make sure it is still there. I've had it for l 2 years now and i haven't had any problems.Using a diaphragm .. need advice.. Help!?
I have used diaphragms a lot in my distant past so I understand what you are dealing with.
However, I feel that only a good gyn doctor can help you with this and effectively answer your question. I think that your doctor you got the diaphragms from is inept as he/she ought to be able to provide you with a properly fitting diaphragm and be able to see what the problem is. You need to change doctors and find one that can tell you why these two diaphragms didn't fit properly. There is a reason why they didn't. Either they are both the wrong size, or there may be something about you physically that makes either those ones not fit, or all diaphragms not fit. I had to stop using diaphragms because as I aged my physical area there changed so that no diaphragms could fit me! This was a big shock. Again, a good doctor could tell you if diaphragms can in fact work for you and if you just are getting the wrong sizes, and if your body is such that it cannot hold a diaphragm, he can tell you what alternative birth control methods you might be able to use other than hormones. You are right, birth control pills are dangerous.
Don't leave it in longer than the time recommended. I also use a diaphragm and gave birth 7 mos ago.
With my first son I had an episiotomy and it hurt for almost a year so that is possible.
Did the dr have you put it in in the office and then check to make sure placement and fit was good? They should do that.
I really need mom advice/help!?
okay, so i took some...inapropriate...pictures on my camera and forgot to delete them. i left my camera in my bathroom. i heard that my mom was in my room and when i came up i saw laudnry on my bed but im not positive she was in my bathroom....but if she saw the pictures...slash video...what should i do if she tries to talk to me...i mean even if she was in my bathroom im not positive she would look at my pictures and i just talked to her a couple min ago and she didnt mention anything...but what if she does tomorrow? advice please! freaking out!I really need mom advice/help!?
well, hopefully she didn't see them, or she probly would have freaked at least a little on you.
You need to delete this stuff. Have more respect for yourself.
If she did see them, then just be honest and tell her how embarrassed you felt when you thought that she saw them. Think about how embarrassed you'd feel if she mentioned it to your father (considering he's around). Let her know that you realize how stupid that is and that you will have enough respect for yourself to not do it ever again. If she is really mad and is freaking on you......take it. Do not argue, or try to plead your case. You know what you did was wrong or you wouldn't be asking advice on how to handle it. Let her rant....THEN tell her that you've learned.I really need mom advice/help!?
being a mother myself, i think if she saw the pictures she would have said something already. if you're so worried about what could happen maybe that's the voice inside you saying you shouldn't have done it. delete the pictures, videos, ect.. if they show up on the internet anyone can see them. i don't know how old you are, but they can keep you from getting into a unniversity or a college and also finding a job in the future. make sure they're all deleted and don't tell anyone you made them. don't do it again or it can come back to haunt you later.
If she asks just tell her the truth. Don't lie about it, because obviously you won't get away with it.
If she doesn't, don't say anything and go ahead and delete the pictures.
well did you take them for a reason? if so, think smarter thoughts next time. If you were goofing around, tell her nonchalantly (if she asks), don't get defensive.
well, hopefully she didn't see them, or she probly would have freaked at least a little on you.
You need to delete this stuff. Have more respect for yourself.
If she did see them, then just be honest and tell her how embarrassed you felt when you thought that she saw them. Think about how embarrassed you'd feel if she mentioned it to your father (considering he's around). Let her know that you realize how stupid that is and that you will have enough respect for yourself to not do it ever again. If she is really mad and is freaking on you......take it. Do not argue, or try to plead your case. You know what you did was wrong or you wouldn't be asking advice on how to handle it. Let her rant....THEN tell her that you've learned.I really need mom advice/help!?
being a mother myself, i think if she saw the pictures she would have said something already. if you're so worried about what could happen maybe that's the voice inside you saying you shouldn't have done it. delete the pictures, videos, ect.. if they show up on the internet anyone can see them. i don't know how old you are, but they can keep you from getting into a unniversity or a college and also finding a job in the future. make sure they're all deleted and don't tell anyone you made them. don't do it again or it can come back to haunt you later.
If she asks just tell her the truth. Don't lie about it, because obviously you won't get away with it.
If she doesn't, don't say anything and go ahead and delete the pictures.
well did you take them for a reason? if so, think smarter thoughts next time. If you were goofing around, tell her nonchalantly (if she asks), don't get defensive.
Moving out...Need advice..help?
so my boyfriend and I want to move out together this would be the first time me and him would be out on our own..he wants to get a house I want an apartment...My thought on it is if we have a house we would have way more bills is that right or am I wrong? I dunno...I really want to but Im not sure what my parents would think..Im 20 hes 21...and we havent been together that long but we both want to be with each other forever..and If things dont work out I mean I can always move back home right? Ugh Im lost help me out people!!Moving out...Need advice..help?
an apartment is a good way to find out if you will both get along with each other and able to live with each others bad habits.you should know in a years time if your really compatible.then i would go for the house it is always a good investment long term and you will have most of your stuff then to put in it.house is a big investment and you need to do your homework on it before buying.good luckMoving out...Need advice..help?
hun im not saying to stop but wait a couple years cause he could break up with u kick u out and be back wheerre u started
It really depends if you're talking about buying a house or renting. If you're renting then you're just paying someone else's mortgage and if you don't have a lot of money then an apartment is the cheaper choice. You wont have to worry about utilities, maintaining a whole house (repairs) for a first time move I would go with an apartment.
well it depends on how tight you are with money. if u have enough go for a house cuz its more secure and will make you feel like you have a life. apartments are always cramped and you cant really have people over.
an apartment is a good way to find out if you will both get along with each other and able to live with each others bad habits.you should know in a years time if your really compatible.then i would go for the house it is always a good investment long term and you will have most of your stuff then to put in it.house is a big investment and you need to do your homework on it before buying.good luckMoving out...Need advice..help?
hun im not saying to stop but wait a couple years cause he could break up with u kick u out and be back wheerre u started
It really depends if you're talking about buying a house or renting. If you're renting then you're just paying someone else's mortgage and if you don't have a lot of money then an apartment is the cheaper choice. You wont have to worry about utilities, maintaining a whole house (repairs) for a first time move I would go with an apartment.
well it depends on how tight you are with money. if u have enough go for a house cuz its more secure and will make you feel like you have a life. apartments are always cramped and you cant really have people over.
Guy Problems-Need advice help.?
I am completly confused. I went on a date with a guy Sunday. We went out to eat and to the state fair together. We had alot of fun. Toward the end,Things got heated up. I told him ';No, That we needed to slow down';. Well he did and he seemed like he was ok with it.He usually calls me every night, but tonight he didnt. However I did find out that he was talking to another girl before me and It didnt work out. Im starting to wonder if hes talking to her now,and that he chose her over me.
Im not not one of the type girls to date every guy that asked me to go on a date. Im picky. I do good in school, Im in all honor coarses, and I take a nursing classesI dont do drugs. I dont understand why I keep getting in the situations.So could someone helpe me? Tell me what Im doing wrong?Guy Problems-Need advice help.?
you are getting too worried over a single missed call. but if your really worried, try calling him for once, nothing wrong with calling him, it would actually get him more into the relationship, since he will see that your interested in the relatioship too. but just don't go phone krazy on him though, that just scares us k. call him once or twice a week, thats normal and you can keep tabs on him.
and this is major advice, NEVER tell him about the other girl thing, cause then he'll suspect that ur ';cheating'; on him, cause if your worried about it, in most cases, your doing it.Guy Problems-Need advice help.?
Honey it is so obvious, since he did not get any from you he went to that next dumb a** that would sleep with him. So don't feel bad you did good by not going further 'cause if you had slept with him which it seems that that's all he was looking for any who I'd say you are pretty lucky. You would have felt worse for sleeping with a person and then not hear from him or ignore you. You did nothing wrong men are pigs. Continue with school, concentrate in your future the right guy will come along don't you worry. You are smart and you'll find your prince soon enough.
Im not not one of the type girls to date every guy that asked me to go on a date. Im picky. I do good in school, Im in all honor coarses, and I take a nursing classesI dont do drugs. I dont understand why I keep getting in the situations.So could someone helpe me? Tell me what Im doing wrong?Guy Problems-Need advice help.?
you are getting too worried over a single missed call. but if your really worried, try calling him for once, nothing wrong with calling him, it would actually get him more into the relationship, since he will see that your interested in the relatioship too. but just don't go phone krazy on him though, that just scares us k. call him once or twice a week, thats normal and you can keep tabs on him.
and this is major advice, NEVER tell him about the other girl thing, cause then he'll suspect that ur ';cheating'; on him, cause if your worried about it, in most cases, your doing it.Guy Problems-Need advice help.?
Honey it is so obvious, since he did not get any from you he went to that next dumb a** that would sleep with him. So don't feel bad you did good by not going further 'cause if you had slept with him which it seems that that's all he was looking for any who I'd say you are pretty lucky. You would have felt worse for sleeping with a person and then not hear from him or ignore you. You did nothing wrong men are pigs. Continue with school, concentrate in your future the right guy will come along don't you worry. You are smart and you'll find your prince soon enough.
I need Yugi Advice help?
Check this deck out tell me what it needs to be tournament Great
pyramid turtle x3
vampire lord x3
marionette mite x3
regenrating mummy x2
zombie master x2
malevolent mech - goku en
dark dust spirit
paladin of the cursed dragon
dark horus (dont ask Lol)
vampire lady
mezuki
red eyes zombie dragon
20 monsters
zombie world x3
call of the mummyx2
card of safe return x2
book of life x3
soul taker
monster reborn
swords of revealing light
13 magics
sakurestu armor x3
trap dustshoot
shadow spell
torrential tribute
threatening roar
tell me what ya'll think
Note: dont have mirror force lol
I need Yugi Advice help?
its ok but try somthing like this
2x ryu kokki
3x zombie master
3x mezuki
3x pyramid turtle
3x plaguespreader zombie (use krebons if you cant afford plaguespreaders)
2/3x goblin zombie
maybe il blud (its a super in the next special ed set in dec so it will be cheaper)
paladin of the cursed drag
spirit reaper
breaker
ns grand mole
sangan
ryko, lightsworn hunter
spells
3x book of life
2x zombie world
2x creature swap
2x card of safe return
soul taker
monster reborn
foolish burial
heavy storm
mst
traps
2x bottomless trap hole
2x phoenix wing wind blast
imperial iron wall
sakuretsu armor
extra deck
2x stardust
2x red dragon archfiend
3x goyo guardian
colossall fighter
magical android
hope i helpedI need Yugi Advice help?
You should play 2-3 Creature Swap, i use to play a deck similar with Creature Swap to steal a big dude and give my opponent a Pyramid Turtle and attack and kill it to get another Zombie. So Id get 2 guys and my opponent would have lost one.gold makeup
pyramid turtle x3
vampire lord x3
marionette mite x3
regenrating mummy x2
zombie master x2
malevolent mech - goku en
dark dust spirit
paladin of the cursed dragon
dark horus (dont ask Lol)
vampire lady
mezuki
red eyes zombie dragon
20 monsters
zombie world x3
call of the mummyx2
card of safe return x2
book of life x3
soul taker
monster reborn
swords of revealing light
13 magics
sakurestu armor x3
trap dustshoot
shadow spell
torrential tribute
threatening roar
tell me what ya'll think
Note: dont have mirror force lol
I need Yugi Advice help?
its ok but try somthing like this
2x ryu kokki
3x zombie master
3x mezuki
3x pyramid turtle
3x plaguespreader zombie (use krebons if you cant afford plaguespreaders)
2/3x goblin zombie
maybe il blud (its a super in the next special ed set in dec so it will be cheaper)
paladin of the cursed drag
spirit reaper
breaker
ns grand mole
sangan
ryko, lightsworn hunter
spells
3x book of life
2x zombie world
2x creature swap
2x card of safe return
soul taker
monster reborn
foolish burial
heavy storm
mst
traps
2x bottomless trap hole
2x phoenix wing wind blast
imperial iron wall
sakuretsu armor
extra deck
2x stardust
2x red dragon archfiend
3x goyo guardian
colossall fighter
magical android
hope i helpedI need Yugi Advice help?
You should play 2-3 Creature Swap, i use to play a deck similar with Creature Swap to steal a big dude and give my opponent a Pyramid Turtle and attack and kill it to get another Zombie. So Id get 2 guys and my opponent would have lost one.
PLEASE HELP ME PRETTY PLEASE ! DANCE CLASS. ANY TIPSS/IDEAS/ADVICE/HELP!??!!??鈥?THANK YOUU<3 :) !!!!!!!!?
alright SOOO
im a teenager and im thinking about starting dancing.
but im going to hafta try and learn some of the things on mah own
b4 i start taking classesss !
what stretches would help me be prepared?
what are some videos that could help me get ready?
what kind of clothes should i wear when i do dance?
are there any moves that are used a lot?
any songs that get me moving?
what foods i shood eat during it?
and any other answers or tips/ideas are wantedd ! please help me!PLEASE HELP ME PRETTY PLEASE ! DANCE CLASS. ANY TIPSS/IDEAS/ADVICE/HELP!??!!??鈥?THANK YOUU%26lt;3 :) !!!!!!!!?
Ok first DON'T STRESS ABOUT IT! Stretches, well I would look into a thing called a Theraband. They help to strengthen your ankles and legs. Also, practice your splits! Look for vids on youtube. I actually got my own channel and will be posting vids of myself dancing so if you'd like I could make a vid to help you out? As for moves, pirouettes mostly. It all just depends on the style of your dance teacher. All teachers have there own preference. As for food, nothing fattening. Go for veggies and water or a turkey sandwich. Nothing like a hot dog because you will feel sluggish after eating it and it will make you weigh you down. Best of luck!
im a teenager and im thinking about starting dancing.
but im going to hafta try and learn some of the things on mah own
b4 i start taking classesss !
what stretches would help me be prepared?
what are some videos that could help me get ready?
what kind of clothes should i wear when i do dance?
are there any moves that are used a lot?
any songs that get me moving?
what foods i shood eat during it?
and any other answers or tips/ideas are wantedd ! please help me!PLEASE HELP ME PRETTY PLEASE ! DANCE CLASS. ANY TIPSS/IDEAS/ADVICE/HELP!??!!??鈥?THANK YOUU%26lt;3 :) !!!!!!!!?
Ok first DON'T STRESS ABOUT IT! Stretches, well I would look into a thing called a Theraband. They help to strengthen your ankles and legs. Also, practice your splits! Look for vids on youtube. I actually got my own channel and will be posting vids of myself dancing so if you'd like I could make a vid to help you out? As for moves, pirouettes mostly. It all just depends on the style of your dance teacher. All teachers have there own preference. As for food, nothing fattening. Go for veggies and water or a turkey sandwich. Nothing like a hot dog because you will feel sluggish after eating it and it will make you weigh you down. Best of luck!
Help i need advice about this problem i got?
Next month i'll be starting school as a new student here in CA. I'm 19 years old. I also just bought a Lamborghini Gallardo which i will be taking to school, and if your wondering what i do for a living i Rap add me in Myspace.
Do you guys think i'm going to get alot of hate because all i'm trying to do is just be cool with everybody?, And do you think i'll be getting lots of very freaky girls (I don't want relationships)?Help i need advice about this problem i got?
I don't see the problem. Have fun in Cali.
Do you guys think i'm going to get alot of hate because all i'm trying to do is just be cool with everybody?, And do you think i'll be getting lots of very freaky girls (I don't want relationships)?Help i need advice about this problem i got?
I don't see the problem. Have fun in Cali.
Traveling to C h i n a next summer, advice/help! ?
I have decided rather randomly and without much background knowledge ,that i would really rather fancy traveling to and around china next summer with my boyfriend.
We are both students, so would be financing it via part time jobs over the next year, not bothered about posh hotels etc..
Traveling from Gatwick / Heathrow Airport, for as long as possible 2-3-(4?) weeks.
I'd really like to see Pandas, and other wildlife, preferably in the wild, also rural places, amazing landscapes etc, rural culture, a big city or two, maybe that big wall .. :P
Can anyone that has been to,or is knowledgeable on, travels to china tell me .. ..
1) Are there any websites/specialists, etc that you would recommend booking with?
2) Is it best to do the traveling around china as part of a packaged holiday, or just fly there and wing it?
3) How expensive would it be (æ‹¢) for food accommodation etc?
Is it best to just book a full board holiday .. or a tour thing.
4) What parts of china would be best ?
5) Anything else that would help ..
Please answer even if you only have something to say about one of the above questions .. every little helps. :p
(Humph, a little speech bubble just told me i had a lot of punctuation, what a monkey !)
Thanks for your help !!
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Traveling to C h i n a next summer, advice/help! ?
My advice is to take any Country off your list that is now commiting horrific crimes against it's people, like China.
It's sad that Countries will not embargo/boycott China because we have become addicted to the manufacture of cheap imports. It's like who cares what happens behind that red curtain, as long as they serve up our needs. It is terrible that people don't care. Traveling to C h i n a next summer, advice/help! ?
I would have chosen Kevin for best answer.
America commits horrific crimes against its people too, with horrendous displays of political bias and inequality. Disrespecting many races, religions and ideologies for the sake of 'the american dream'.
Jump of your media band wagon.
What i primarily want to go to china for is for the landscape and the wildlife
that was there way before the media decided it was 'cool' to suddenly notice the breach of human rights that happens all over the world .
Take a mask, air purifier. Don't talk to anyone about the Bible or Tibet. Oh yeah, make sure you visit Tiananmen Square where there were thousands of young students/ppl killed in protests of 1989!! Real FUN!!
I have kept a site providing tour booking reservation and travel information of China. I hope it would help solve your problems. Good luck!
You can visit the website below
My favorite places to visit:
Xi'an. The city was the Capital of China for many years before Beijing, and has a lot of cultural history. Qin Shi Huang Di (the first emperor of China) lived in Xi'an and that is where you can find the Terra Cotta Warriors which are quite a sight to behold.
Tibet. Whether or not you want to consider it part of China, it's spectacular to see. It's very different from the overcrowded Eastern part of China, and a different culture altogether. With the relatively new railway from mainland China, you can take the train rather than needing to fly. It would be a long ride, though.
Beijing. Beijing also has many historical sites to see. I don't like it as well as Xi'an, but it's still a must-see. You can tour the Great Wall, Forbidden City/Tian'anmen Square, Temple of Heaven, Ming Tombs, Summer Palace, and historic Hutong (the older part of the city that shows the way homes used to be built).
There are plenty of other smaller places that would be fun to see, but for only a summer you can't get everywhere. As far as tickets, the earlier you book them, the cheaper they'll be. I don't know if you can use this agency from the UK, but I have used this site http://www.pacplace.com/ and gotten very good rates. They also take care of your visa for you, which is handy because China requires that someone go to an Embassy/Consulate to deliver the application in person, and I live far from the nearest consulate. I hope this helps.
Here is a good website that u can get enough information u want to know about China, there are a lot of Chinese here, well, including me :), I dont know how to answer your questions, but i know wherever u go, the preparation and money are both important, well, u could find that things here in some places are cheaper than u can imagine, and as to the best parts, i went to college in Dalian, and now i live in Beijing, i love both of them, although on your first eyes u would say they are so different, the former one is a modern seaside city, the other one is more famous for its culture and history, it depends on what attract u most. I hope this could help u a little.
We are both students, so would be financing it via part time jobs over the next year, not bothered about posh hotels etc..
Traveling from Gatwick / Heathrow Airport, for as long as possible 2-3-(4?) weeks.
I'd really like to see Pandas, and other wildlife, preferably in the wild, also rural places, amazing landscapes etc, rural culture, a big city or two, maybe that big wall .. :P
Can anyone that has been to,or is knowledgeable on, travels to china tell me .. ..
1) Are there any websites/specialists, etc that you would recommend booking with?
2) Is it best to do the traveling around china as part of a packaged holiday, or just fly there and wing it?
3) How expensive would it be (æ‹¢) for food accommodation etc?
Is it best to just book a full board holiday .. or a tour thing.
4) What parts of china would be best ?
5) Anything else that would help ..
Please answer even if you only have something to say about one of the above questions .. every little helps. :p
(Humph, a little speech bubble just told me i had a lot of punctuation, what a monkey !)
Thanks for your help !!
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Traveling to C h i n a next summer, advice/help! ?
My advice is to take any Country off your list that is now commiting horrific crimes against it's people, like China.
It's sad that Countries will not embargo/boycott China because we have become addicted to the manufacture of cheap imports. It's like who cares what happens behind that red curtain, as long as they serve up our needs. It is terrible that people don't care. Traveling to C h i n a next summer, advice/help! ?
I would have chosen Kevin for best answer.
America commits horrific crimes against its people too, with horrendous displays of political bias and inequality. Disrespecting many races, religions and ideologies for the sake of 'the american dream'.
Jump of your media band wagon.
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What i primarily want to go to china for is for the landscape and the wildlife
that was there way before the media decided it was 'cool' to suddenly notice the breach of human rights that happens all over the world .
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Take a mask, air purifier. Don't talk to anyone about the Bible or Tibet. Oh yeah, make sure you visit Tiananmen Square where there were thousands of young students/ppl killed in protests of 1989!! Real FUN!!
I have kept a site providing tour booking reservation and travel information of China. I hope it would help solve your problems. Good luck!
You can visit the website below
My favorite places to visit:
Xi'an. The city was the Capital of China for many years before Beijing, and has a lot of cultural history. Qin Shi Huang Di (the first emperor of China) lived in Xi'an and that is where you can find the Terra Cotta Warriors which are quite a sight to behold.
Tibet. Whether or not you want to consider it part of China, it's spectacular to see. It's very different from the overcrowded Eastern part of China, and a different culture altogether. With the relatively new railway from mainland China, you can take the train rather than needing to fly. It would be a long ride, though.
Beijing. Beijing also has many historical sites to see. I don't like it as well as Xi'an, but it's still a must-see. You can tour the Great Wall, Forbidden City/Tian'anmen Square, Temple of Heaven, Ming Tombs, Summer Palace, and historic Hutong (the older part of the city that shows the way homes used to be built).
There are plenty of other smaller places that would be fun to see, but for only a summer you can't get everywhere. As far as tickets, the earlier you book them, the cheaper they'll be. I don't know if you can use this agency from the UK, but I have used this site http://www.pacplace.com/ and gotten very good rates. They also take care of your visa for you, which is handy because China requires that someone go to an Embassy/Consulate to deliver the application in person, and I live far from the nearest consulate. I hope this helps.
Here is a good website that u can get enough information u want to know about China, there are a lot of Chinese here, well, including me :), I dont know how to answer your questions, but i know wherever u go, the preparation and money are both important, well, u could find that things here in some places are cheaper than u can imagine, and as to the best parts, i went to college in Dalian, and now i live in Beijing, i love both of them, although on your first eyes u would say they are so different, the former one is a modern seaside city, the other one is more famous for its culture and history, it depends on what attract u most. I hope this could help u a little.
Please just answer this, I am scared and need advice. Help me out?
I like this girl who a friend also likes, the girl is best friends with my best friend's girlfriend's brother, who is gay for me and my friend (Tries to flirt with us, YUCK). My best friend's girlfriend is gettin' really flirty with the friend who likes the girl I do. And their is a rumor that the gay is going to ask me out and I WILL SAY NO, but if I say no then I get in a bad standing with the girl I like. There is another rumor that also states that my best friend's girlfriend will ask out my friend who likes the girl I like after breaking up with best friend. What to I do??? How does this happen???!Please just answer this, I am scared and need advice. Help me out?
First of all, wow. That is one convoluted web of dating. All right, I'll answer one thing at time. I don't think you saying no to the gay person will put you in bad standing with the girl you like. That is, IF you do it kindly. When the person asks you out (assuming he will), explain to him that you are straight and, although you are very flattered that he would be interested in you, cannot go out with a guy. Ask him if he would like to be platonic friends. This should help you get closer to the girl you like. Trust me. If your best friend does not know of this rumor, you should probably tell him, but caution him that it is only a rumor and you do not know if it is true. If anything goes wrong, just remember that it is not the end of the world.Please just answer this, I am scared and need advice. Help me out?
say no to the guy
if that girl doesn't accept it
she wasn't for you anyways.
you'll find someone
who is right for YOU
and only you.
way to confusing srry man
First of all, wow. That is one convoluted web of dating. All right, I'll answer one thing at time. I don't think you saying no to the gay person will put you in bad standing with the girl you like. That is, IF you do it kindly. When the person asks you out (assuming he will), explain to him that you are straight and, although you are very flattered that he would be interested in you, cannot go out with a guy. Ask him if he would like to be platonic friends. This should help you get closer to the girl you like. Trust me. If your best friend does not know of this rumor, you should probably tell him, but caution him that it is only a rumor and you do not know if it is true. If anything goes wrong, just remember that it is not the end of the world.Please just answer this, I am scared and need advice. Help me out?
say no to the guy
if that girl doesn't accept it
she wasn't for you anyways.
you'll find someone
who is right for YOU
and only you.
way to confusing srry man
What college would be right for me? Really need advice/help please?
I'm currently a senior in high-school in NJ
I have done two sports off and on throughout my high-school career. (off and on because of injuries)
I have average SAT scores, around 1520 but I have only taken it once but will take it again in October and December (I'm shooting for 16-1700s.) I have a private tutor for SATs right now and taking classes.
My academic credentials are a bit better; I believe I have a 3.5 GPA as of now (I'm not really sure because my counselor is a disorganized mess that rarely does anything for the students); I mostly recieved A's and B's with occassional 1 or 2 C's :( But my GPA will increase because I am currently taking 2 AP classes, 1 college-level business class, and 1 honors class. All classes in which I am highly interested in.
I also took two honors classes my junior year.
My freshman and sophomore years, were decent with academic classes, but nothing to be proud of.
I started volunteering over the summer a bit.
My interests are history, politics, military studies, and as hobbies: art and sports. I have always received good grades in history; I am kind of shooting for a major in international business, international relations, or political science. I am also bi-lingual (if that even does any good)..
I'm always a happy, friendly and active person, love outdoors, socializing.
I'm an only child so I've never had advice from a sibiling or someone that went through the college experience before, and my parents are also sort of clueless as well so any USEFUL and HELPFUL advice or help will be greatly appreciated :)
So my questions are:
Do you think any of the majors I listed above are a good choice for me? (from what you know)
If not, please give me suggestions on what other majors I could be looking at.
But if so, any suggestions for which colleges would fit my ';resume';?What college would be right for me? Really need advice/help please?
Your thoughts about majors are all solid, but I really wouldn't worry about choosing a major right now. It's better to identify areas that interest you and then really pore through the various books on colleges that are in libraries and book stores to see which appeals to you. Your record is good so you should be able to get into a good school, but you need to be realistic about your chances of getting into a ';great'; school -- you'd have to really kick some butt on an essay and on your upcoming retake of the SAT to have a good chance at a top tier private school, but you should look into them anyway and apply to one or two ';stretch'; schools in any case. And you'll have to decide about things like budget, distance from home, ideal size of a school, etc.
For international stuff, schools in major metropolitan areas and certain private schools are worth focusing on. Tufts in the Boston area, is a great school with strong international programs that popped to mind, but that's just one example. NYU and Columbia also both have a lot of international-relations related coursework (and guest speakers, other resources, etc.) but they are in NYC and are expensive, which may not work for your other interests. Schools in other areas may offer more of a distinct campus life that you might thrive in, and they may offer closer proximity to real nature). For an active, outdoorsy experience, you might look to some place a little warmer than NJ, or else to an area near skiing if you're into that. Places like North Carolina, which has a plethora of good public (UNC) and private universities, and Colorado or Southern California, where a lot of outdoor enthusiasts live and where there are a lot of schools, pop to mind. But there's a big lifestyle difference between a huge school and a tiny one, where you'll get more individual attention and guidance but sometimes more narrow academic opportunities and resources. In California, if you're willing to go far away, you can look into schools like Pomona and occidental (relatively small, private schools with decent reputations in a big metropolitan area) or any of the big University of California schools, but those may actually be harder for an out-of-stater to get into than the small ones. You might love a place like Berkeley or UCLA, though, so it might be worth it to make one of those a ';stretch'; school for you.... Anyway, in your place, I would do a lot of reading up on my own to see what you think feels right for you in terms of social life, the environment and climate of the place, and the academic programs offered and then start narrowing down the list of schools that meets your ideal requirements.gold makeup
I have done two sports off and on throughout my high-school career. (off and on because of injuries)
I have average SAT scores, around 1520 but I have only taken it once but will take it again in October and December (I'm shooting for 16-1700s.) I have a private tutor for SATs right now and taking classes.
My academic credentials are a bit better; I believe I have a 3.5 GPA as of now (I'm not really sure because my counselor is a disorganized mess that rarely does anything for the students); I mostly recieved A's and B's with occassional 1 or 2 C's :( But my GPA will increase because I am currently taking 2 AP classes, 1 college-level business class, and 1 honors class. All classes in which I am highly interested in.
I also took two honors classes my junior year.
My freshman and sophomore years, were decent with academic classes, but nothing to be proud of.
I started volunteering over the summer a bit.
My interests are history, politics, military studies, and as hobbies: art and sports. I have always received good grades in history; I am kind of shooting for a major in international business, international relations, or political science. I am also bi-lingual (if that even does any good)..
I'm always a happy, friendly and active person, love outdoors, socializing.
I'm an only child so I've never had advice from a sibiling or someone that went through the college experience before, and my parents are also sort of clueless as well so any USEFUL and HELPFUL advice or help will be greatly appreciated :)
So my questions are:
Do you think any of the majors I listed above are a good choice for me? (from what you know)
If not, please give me suggestions on what other majors I could be looking at.
But if so, any suggestions for which colleges would fit my ';resume';?What college would be right for me? Really need advice/help please?
Your thoughts about majors are all solid, but I really wouldn't worry about choosing a major right now. It's better to identify areas that interest you and then really pore through the various books on colleges that are in libraries and book stores to see which appeals to you. Your record is good so you should be able to get into a good school, but you need to be realistic about your chances of getting into a ';great'; school -- you'd have to really kick some butt on an essay and on your upcoming retake of the SAT to have a good chance at a top tier private school, but you should look into them anyway and apply to one or two ';stretch'; schools in any case. And you'll have to decide about things like budget, distance from home, ideal size of a school, etc.
For international stuff, schools in major metropolitan areas and certain private schools are worth focusing on. Tufts in the Boston area, is a great school with strong international programs that popped to mind, but that's just one example. NYU and Columbia also both have a lot of international-relations related coursework (and guest speakers, other resources, etc.) but they are in NYC and are expensive, which may not work for your other interests. Schools in other areas may offer more of a distinct campus life that you might thrive in, and they may offer closer proximity to real nature). For an active, outdoorsy experience, you might look to some place a little warmer than NJ, or else to an area near skiing if you're into that. Places like North Carolina, which has a plethora of good public (UNC) and private universities, and Colorado or Southern California, where a lot of outdoor enthusiasts live and where there are a lot of schools, pop to mind. But there's a big lifestyle difference between a huge school and a tiny one, where you'll get more individual attention and guidance but sometimes more narrow academic opportunities and resources. In California, if you're willing to go far away, you can look into schools like Pomona and occidental (relatively small, private schools with decent reputations in a big metropolitan area) or any of the big University of California schools, but those may actually be harder for an out-of-stater to get into than the small ones. You might love a place like Berkeley or UCLA, though, so it might be worth it to make one of those a ';stretch'; school for you.... Anyway, in your place, I would do a lot of reading up on my own to see what you think feels right for you in terms of social life, the environment and climate of the place, and the academic programs offered and then start narrowing down the list of schools that meets your ideal requirements.
I need your advice on baby cribs. Can you help?
I am a furniture designer and I am interested in creating a nursery line. Do you Moms/Dads have any suggestions on how to make my cribs more convenient for you? I love modern furniture, so definitely this line will be modern as well. I am also planing to make it eco-friendly, and convertible (crib-daybed). What would you like to see in the future cribs? Any problems with you current cribs, suggestions? THANK YOUI need your advice on baby cribs. Can you help?
I am definately in the market for a convertible crib. We figure that after we have about 3 kids and everyone uses it then we'll use it as a headboard/footboard. We want something that isn't going to be too dated.
I am definately in the market for a convertible crib. We figure that after we have about 3 kids and everyone uses it then we'll use it as a headboard/footboard. We want something that isn't going to be too dated.
Are any of you ever sick of a friend? ADvice. Help please.?
So I've known my room mate (at college) for 6 years. I'll be living with him next year (I don't want to , but didn't want to risk having a stranger living with me). So we have the same major with the same classes. But he keeps stealing my friends. Every friend that I make at school, he follows me and tags along. Whenever I make a new friend, he's somehow always there. He's shy and only gets to know them better via AIM/texting. But it's annoying cause he's always there. Don't get me wrong I like him as a person. But I want to get away. He has these weird bonds with my friends through their textings and stuff. What shoudl I do?Are any of you ever sick of a friend? ADvice. Help please.?
Either put up with it until you graduate or find someone else to room with.Are any of you ever sick of a friend? ADvice. Help please.?
Just tell him exactly how it is, the way your honest here. Hes a mature guy and can take it. Just tell him its annoying you and talk about it, ask him what he thinks.
i just got rid of one read my question answeer....
just tell him to give yous some space because ur hanging with another friend
Either put up with it until you graduate or find someone else to room with.Are any of you ever sick of a friend? ADvice. Help please.?
Just tell him exactly how it is, the way your honest here. Hes a mature guy and can take it. Just tell him its annoying you and talk about it, ask him what he thinks.
i just got rid of one read my question answeer....
just tell him to give yous some space because ur hanging with another friend
Still bleeding after the third time of having sex?! advice? help?!?
i lost my virginity for the first time but it only lasted a short while and he didnt go too far in because it hurt me too much. i didnt bleed at all this time apart from a few drops i noticed after i went to the toilet. we had sex a few days later but this time he did it alot deeper and it really hurt i also had abdominal pains and found it all really uncomfortable, after sex this time there was alot of blood it turned out my period had come two weeks early?( i dont know if this is normal) i thought my period had stopped yesterday but last night when we had sex it was really painfull and uncomfortable again and i bled again! but im not sure if thats the end of my period or something? a few hours later i still had abdominal pains then i got a water infection but im not sure if thats realted to having sex or whether its just coincidense. i know i have a septate hymen and that can be tough to break so could it be that? i looked today its still there! but it looks different than it used to so im guessing its been stretched and damaged. anyone that can help me please do because im really woried and dont really know much about all this.
thankyou xxStill bleeding after the third time of having sex?! advice? help?!?
It doesn't sound like you are having too much fun. Losing your virginity rarely is!! However the concept that one size fits all is not true. If the man you are intimate with has a large penis he may be penetrating too deep and causing you discomfort. Slow down a little and let your partner know the moment he is hurting you.
As for the period coming early - sexual activity dramatically alters your hormonal levels. So don't worry about the irregularity. But do make sure that's all it is and he hasn't inadvertently hurt you.
The bladder infection is all part of the bruising too.
Take it slow and heal a little before you try again. - And make sure he is gentle with you.Still bleeding after the third time of having sex?! advice? help?!?
It shouldn't normally be a big problem go and see your GP
Well, if you are ready for sex, then you will be prepared mentally and physically....I mean foreplay here. If you are sexually aroused, then you produce a natural lubricant and it slips in and out easily.
You could always use a lubricant from the chemist (apply to yourself and his penis) but think about this.....are you really ready to have sex? Maybe you are so nervous that you are 'not getting into it', not having enough foreplay or clitoral stimulation or just need to wait a few months before you start again???
Go back a few steps and start again...
thankyou xxStill bleeding after the third time of having sex?! advice? help?!?
It doesn't sound like you are having too much fun. Losing your virginity rarely is!! However the concept that one size fits all is not true. If the man you are intimate with has a large penis he may be penetrating too deep and causing you discomfort. Slow down a little and let your partner know the moment he is hurting you.
As for the period coming early - sexual activity dramatically alters your hormonal levels. So don't worry about the irregularity. But do make sure that's all it is and he hasn't inadvertently hurt you.
The bladder infection is all part of the bruising too.
Take it slow and heal a little before you try again. - And make sure he is gentle with you.Still bleeding after the third time of having sex?! advice? help?!?
It shouldn't normally be a big problem go and see your GP
Well, if you are ready for sex, then you will be prepared mentally and physically....I mean foreplay here. If you are sexually aroused, then you produce a natural lubricant and it slips in and out easily.
You could always use a lubricant from the chemist (apply to yourself and his penis) but think about this.....are you really ready to have sex? Maybe you are so nervous that you are 'not getting into it', not having enough foreplay or clitoral stimulation or just need to wait a few months before you start again???
Go back a few steps and start again...
My 17 year old daughter's boyfriend I need advice HELP?
My daughters boyfriend admittedly smokes pot, he has smacked my daughter in the butt in front of me and her grandfather, he has picked her up at 3am on several occasions without our consent, he has used extreme fowl language towards me threatening me with violence and telling me how my daughter is just gonna get in his car and drive away with him when shes 18. He screamed at my other daughter pointing his finger into her forehead. I have filed a menacing and assault charges against him and am trying to get a protection order. The principal at school met with me and a sheriff just this morning and he is keeping them separated. This kid is 18 and is a classless piece of crap! I am doing everything I can to keep him away from my daughter. Now, my daughter hates me. I love her so much and I am just trying to protect her from this man. How do I begin to heal our relationship?My 17 year old daughter's boyfriend I need advice HELP?
Well good for you for being a good dad. She's going to ';hate'; you for a while. But she'll get over it. There isn't anything you're going to be able to do. She's going to resent you and be so mad for a long time possibly. Eventually she will realize you were protecting her, and doing your job as her father. Don't tell her you are sorry. And do not let her disrespect you. Take away her phone and computer, because they will see each other and communicate. If she needs a phone for security reasons, either call your phone company and ask how to block numbers, or better, get her one of those child phones that can only call 3 numbers. She needs to know that you're doing this for her safety. He manipulated her, so she thinks he loves her, and she loves him. She'll thank you later. Keep her on lockdown! Good luck getting through this...!My 17 year old daughter's boyfriend I need advice HELP?
Explain to her that this would have ended up a terrible relationship! Anyone with any sense could see that. You need to explain why you did what you did, and tell her that she's better than that. She deserves better than some druggie who is violent to her own family. Classless, certainly. Tell her, ';when this kid ends up in jail, be happy what I did for you,';
well he is a no class bum
she will find this out one day.
give her one week with him and she will find out what a crap head he is and when he screws another lady she will see he is a booty call man.
sometimes we learn by out mistakes.
Go on ';Parental Control'; !!!
time,time will, do the right thing for her, she'll apreciate later)^^ ,tell her ab hr Bf, he is a jurk! i think she deserve something better
Protect your daughter!!! Don't let her be controlled by this creep. I'm guessing all he wants is sex.
its your fault u gave her to much liberty and this is what happends when you try to be friends with your kids instead of being a parent good luck with that
try to talk to her as a friend. do not try to shout. if you are shouting at her, it will make it worse..
Probably the best advice i can give you is to have a talk with her. Speaking as a teenager we often don't listen to our parents because we believer they are just overly protective and trying to lead our life. Arrange to meet with a counselor or someone who has gone through a relationship like this and talk. Listen to her above all and show her trust.
Do little things for her to show you love and care for her. If she shoots you down every time you try keep at it. Persistence will eventually tear that wall down and show you care enough for her to keep trying.
(I do not mean buying her gifts to make her like you. I meant among the lines of sweet toughts like writing her a letter, renting her favorite movie, going camping, etc)
So keep at it and good luck
Well good for you for being a good dad. She's going to ';hate'; you for a while. But she'll get over it. There isn't anything you're going to be able to do. She's going to resent you and be so mad for a long time possibly. Eventually she will realize you were protecting her, and doing your job as her father. Don't tell her you are sorry. And do not let her disrespect you. Take away her phone and computer, because they will see each other and communicate. If she needs a phone for security reasons, either call your phone company and ask how to block numbers, or better, get her one of those child phones that can only call 3 numbers. She needs to know that you're doing this for her safety. He manipulated her, so she thinks he loves her, and she loves him. She'll thank you later. Keep her on lockdown! Good luck getting through this...!My 17 year old daughter's boyfriend I need advice HELP?
Explain to her that this would have ended up a terrible relationship! Anyone with any sense could see that. You need to explain why you did what you did, and tell her that she's better than that. She deserves better than some druggie who is violent to her own family. Classless, certainly. Tell her, ';when this kid ends up in jail, be happy what I did for you,';
well he is a no class bum
she will find this out one day.
give her one week with him and she will find out what a crap head he is and when he screws another lady she will see he is a booty call man.
sometimes we learn by out mistakes.
Go on ';Parental Control'; !!!
time,time will, do the right thing for her, she'll apreciate later)^^ ,tell her ab hr Bf, he is a jurk! i think she deserve something better
Protect your daughter!!! Don't let her be controlled by this creep. I'm guessing all he wants is sex.
its your fault u gave her to much liberty and this is what happends when you try to be friends with your kids instead of being a parent good luck with that
try to talk to her as a friend. do not try to shout. if you are shouting at her, it will make it worse..
Probably the best advice i can give you is to have a talk with her. Speaking as a teenager we often don't listen to our parents because we believer they are just overly protective and trying to lead our life. Arrange to meet with a counselor or someone who has gone through a relationship like this and talk. Listen to her above all and show her trust.
Do little things for her to show you love and care for her. If she shoots you down every time you try keep at it. Persistence will eventually tear that wall down and show you care enough for her to keep trying.
(I do not mean buying her gifts to make her like you. I meant among the lines of sweet toughts like writing her a letter, renting her favorite movie, going camping, etc)
So keep at it and good luck
Help i need advice about this problem i got?
Next month i'll be starting school as a new student here in CA. I'm 19 years old. I also just bought a Lamborghini Gallardo which i will be taking to school, and if your wondering what i do for a living i Rap add me in Myspace.
Do you guys think i'm going to get alot of hate because all i'm trying to do is just be cool with everybody?, And do you think i'll be getting lots of very freaky girls (I don't want relationships)?Help i need advice about this problem i got?
well dumb hoes will love ferraris but smart women will look beyond a ferrari.Help i need advice about this problem i got?
you will get lots of hate from the guys and you will get lots of poooon from the girls. lol it's quite simple really.
You are full of $hit you dumbass. Rap your lips around my d*ck and suck it f@ggot.
Nah i dont think soooo
Do you guys think i'm going to get alot of hate because all i'm trying to do is just be cool with everybody?, And do you think i'll be getting lots of very freaky girls (I don't want relationships)?Help i need advice about this problem i got?
well dumb hoes will love ferraris but smart women will look beyond a ferrari.Help i need advice about this problem i got?
you will get lots of hate from the guys and you will get lots of poooon from the girls. lol it's quite simple really.
You are full of $hit you dumbass. Rap your lips around my d*ck and suck it f@ggot.
Nah i dont think soooo
Girls! I need your advice/help please!?
Okay, so there's this really really weird thing that heppens whever I see something people kissing. My vagina gets this really really weird feeling that makes me want to squeeze it and when I squeeze it, there's this really good feeling that occurs and I continue squeezing until the feeling's gone...okay I know this is weird and stuff but...is this normal?do you guys get this? i think that my cousin had this too and we talked about it when we were younger but i'm too afraid to talk to her about this awkward subject.It's really hard to explain but.... GIVE ME SOME ADVICE PLEASE?!?!?
FYI: I'm 14 years oldGirls! I need your advice/help please!?
Your young, and starting to feel sexual pleasures, without the sex. Some women get turned on by seeing people making out, and it probably makes you feel really horny, as it does with some girls. It could be possible if you touch around your vagina you would start to get a bit of an orgasm, which means you are deffinately just finding watching people kissin horny.
Dont worry about it, all teenagers feel like this at some point in their teenage-hood.
Lily xGirls! I need your advice/help please!?
Yes! I expirience the same exact thing! im only 13 but im almost positive its called getting horny, yah sexually turned on. Gross, ik but its the truth
Your feeling horny.....yh its normal but just let the feeling flow through you....the feeling fades away......
you get the horny feeling. it'l settle down. dont grab ull b teased
What Lily-x said. :]makeup help
FYI: I'm 14 years oldGirls! I need your advice/help please!?
Your young, and starting to feel sexual pleasures, without the sex. Some women get turned on by seeing people making out, and it probably makes you feel really horny, as it does with some girls. It could be possible if you touch around your vagina you would start to get a bit of an orgasm, which means you are deffinately just finding watching people kissin horny.
Dont worry about it, all teenagers feel like this at some point in their teenage-hood.
Lily xGirls! I need your advice/help please!?
Yes! I expirience the same exact thing! im only 13 but im almost positive its called getting horny, yah sexually turned on. Gross, ik but its the truth
Your feeling horny.....yh its normal but just let the feeling flow through you....the feeling fades away......
you get the horny feeling. it'l settle down. dont grab ull b teased
What Lily-x said. :]
I need some guy advice?!... help!?
My mom planned a family vacation with our old neighbors that I haven't seen since I was 7. We saw them over the summer and one of their kids, my old friend Andrew, is so hot now! When we lived across the street from eachother we didn't get along very well and I'm afraid thats going to happen again. We're both pretty shy and I'm going to try my hardest to go out of my comfort zone to be outgoing and friendly. We are leaving a week from today and I want some tips on how to be really outgoing and flirty with someone who might take a little time to come out of his shell. And our parents will probably be around a lot so how can I be flirty without them noticing? What are some things that guys find irresitable? I want to stand out and I want to make this vacation one to remember.
ps- How will I know if he's interested or not?
pss- It will be in Disneyworld Florida.I need some guy advice?!... help!?
Just be yourself, that's really all you need to know. Just be real. Smile, relax and have fun. If you're faking it, he'll know and it will turn him OFF to you. You want to attract him, just be yourself and don't be clingy. Just be cool to the kid.I need some guy advice?!... help!?
Get a good handle of where he's at before making any move. He probably changed, but you don't know if that will translate into him liking you or not.
As for being conservatively flirty, it's mainly the conversation. If you ask him questions about himself, that tends to pique guy's interest. I wouldn't go overboard with the flirting. Both parents will be there, and you don't know how he'll react if you get overly flirty.
Well as long as you can stop being shy ask him questions. I'm a really shy guy, and when girls want to go out with me I don't really get out of my shell until they ask me questions. It could take some time it depends on how shy he is.
When you are walking with him, reach you hand over and touch his and try to hold his hand.
What you should do is act like you are 7... Be very playful and tease him, kind of slap him on the arm and things like that. and SMILE! always be smiling... If he smiles back at you when you guys are talking you can tell he is interested....
Just be yourself. Enjoy your vacation!
ps- How will I know if he's interested or not?
pss- It will be in Disneyworld Florida.I need some guy advice?!... help!?
Just be yourself, that's really all you need to know. Just be real. Smile, relax and have fun. If you're faking it, he'll know and it will turn him OFF to you. You want to attract him, just be yourself and don't be clingy. Just be cool to the kid.I need some guy advice?!... help!?
Get a good handle of where he's at before making any move. He probably changed, but you don't know if that will translate into him liking you or not.
As for being conservatively flirty, it's mainly the conversation. If you ask him questions about himself, that tends to pique guy's interest. I wouldn't go overboard with the flirting. Both parents will be there, and you don't know how he'll react if you get overly flirty.
Well as long as you can stop being shy ask him questions. I'm a really shy guy, and when girls want to go out with me I don't really get out of my shell until they ask me questions. It could take some time it depends on how shy he is.
When you are walking with him, reach you hand over and touch his and try to hold his hand.
What you should do is act like you are 7... Be very playful and tease him, kind of slap him on the arm and things like that. and SMILE! always be smiling... If he smiles back at you when you guys are talking you can tell he is interested....
Just be yourself. Enjoy your vacation!
I really need guy advice...Help?!?
my name is izzy, and i need some guy advice.
there is this guy in my Algebra, English, and American History class, and i have a big crush on him, but does he like me back?
my friends think that he does because sometimes, he will stare at me for a short while during lunch, and the day before valentines day, i was kind of upset cuz everyone was getting Red Roses, and i got none, and he was like, 'bye have a great weekend'
and when we had a substitute teacher in Algebra, once she called all of the names, she asked, 'did i get everyone's name?'
and he said, 'did you call Izzy?' and a few minutes later, i was texting, (cuz i finished all of my work and we pretty much had a free period) and he sat in front of me and was like, 'don't worry, iz, i'll block her way so she can't text you.
%26amp;%26amp; at the fall and winter balls, he kept walking around me, and my pals thought he was going to ask me to dance., but
didnt ask me to dance, because during the slow songs he went with his friends to get a drink...
what do you think?
if you think he does like me, how do i let him know that i like him....
please help me...I really need guy advice...Help?!?
Yes I think he does.
Either A). Tell him.
B). Flirt so he thinks you're interested, and may build up the courage to ask you out.I really need guy advice...Help?!?
I think he's nervous about asking you out!
i think that (since i can't read his mind) he maybe does but doesn't know it he probably ask himself the same ?
there is this guy in my Algebra, English, and American History class, and i have a big crush on him, but does he like me back?
my friends think that he does because sometimes, he will stare at me for a short while during lunch, and the day before valentines day, i was kind of upset cuz everyone was getting Red Roses, and i got none, and he was like, 'bye have a great weekend'
and when we had a substitute teacher in Algebra, once she called all of the names, she asked, 'did i get everyone's name?'
and he said, 'did you call Izzy?' and a few minutes later, i was texting, (cuz i finished all of my work and we pretty much had a free period) and he sat in front of me and was like, 'don't worry, iz, i'll block her way so she can't text you.
%26amp;%26amp; at the fall and winter balls, he kept walking around me, and my pals thought he was going to ask me to dance., but
didnt ask me to dance, because during the slow songs he went with his friends to get a drink...
what do you think?
if you think he does like me, how do i let him know that i like him....
please help me...I really need guy advice...Help?!?
Yes I think he does.
Either A). Tell him.
B). Flirt so he thinks you're interested, and may build up the courage to ask you out.I really need guy advice...Help?!?
I think he's nervous about asking you out!
i think that (since i can't read his mind) he maybe does but doesn't know it he probably ask himself the same ?
I Need Some Girl Advice HELP!!!!?
Ok now i am seeing this girl (Jenna). She is an extremely nice girl but she is very shy. I met her because my dad is her coach and we have been seeing each other for a little while but nothing serous. I like her and want to ask her to be my girlfriend but i am nervous. I was talking to some of her friends and they all said the same thing is that she finds is weird that she would be going out with the coach's son (my father by the way does not care). I want to figure what the right course of action would be:
A. Go and talk to her (i am not sure what to say yet)
B. Do nothing and see what happens
C. Your Idea's (I don't know that is why I am asking)I Need Some Girl Advice HELP!!!!?
Mmmm,
i Say You talk to her about it.
tell her if she wants to give it a try.
tell her what you feel about her
that'd be the best thing to do:]]]
HONESTY!:]]]
Ahaha!I Need Some Girl Advice HELP!!!!?
Mate i would just go and talk to her and let her know how you feel and let her know that your dad don't care if she feels the same for you she might be relieved that you made the first move as being a shy female is hard i should know i am one and being shy makes it hard to make the first step you never know what could happen also let her know you can still be friends if she don't feel the same way as it sounds like you both get along real well
Well, you said you've only been seeing each other for a little while..so why rush it? Go ahead, take yur time to get to know her %26amp; when you feel like the time is right, then you should talk to her %26amp; tell her how you feel. Hopefully, that'll change her mind about dating the coach's son.
Good Luck!
pick A and say: i heard that you think that it would be weird if we were together because my dad is your coach but i really like you and i think we would be good together. and also my dad doesn't care if we are boyfriend and girlfriend.
if she really did like yeu she wuldnt care if yeu were the coaches son, tell her that
Talk with her about it! Sometimes it's hard to get up the nerve to start that kind of conversation, but you should. Just tell her that you like her first, and see where the conversation goes from there. She may or may not have a problem with the fact your dad is the coach. You can't necessarily trust what her friends say; they may not really know how she feels. There is a possibility she's not interested in going out with you, but the worst thing that can come of this conversation is her telling you that. Give it a shot and she might be your girlfriend!
A. Go and talk to her (i am not sure what to say yet)
B. Do nothing and see what happens
C. Your Idea's (I don't know that is why I am asking)I Need Some Girl Advice HELP!!!!?
Mmmm,
i Say You talk to her about it.
tell her if she wants to give it a try.
tell her what you feel about her
that'd be the best thing to do:]]]
HONESTY!:]]]
Ahaha!I Need Some Girl Advice HELP!!!!?
Mate i would just go and talk to her and let her know how you feel and let her know that your dad don't care if she feels the same for you she might be relieved that you made the first move as being a shy female is hard i should know i am one and being shy makes it hard to make the first step you never know what could happen also let her know you can still be friends if she don't feel the same way as it sounds like you both get along real well
Well, you said you've only been seeing each other for a little while..so why rush it? Go ahead, take yur time to get to know her %26amp; when you feel like the time is right, then you should talk to her %26amp; tell her how you feel. Hopefully, that'll change her mind about dating the coach's son.
Good Luck!
pick A and say: i heard that you think that it would be weird if we were together because my dad is your coach but i really like you and i think we would be good together. and also my dad doesn't care if we are boyfriend and girlfriend.
if she really did like yeu she wuldnt care if yeu were the coaches son, tell her that
Talk with her about it! Sometimes it's hard to get up the nerve to start that kind of conversation, but you should. Just tell her that you like her first, and see where the conversation goes from there. She may or may not have a problem with the fact your dad is the coach. You can't necessarily trust what her friends say; they may not really know how she feels. There is a possibility she's not interested in going out with you, but the worst thing that can come of this conversation is her telling you that. Give it a shot and she might be your girlfriend!
Help! I want to move from Academic life in London to Oxford.Has anyone got any advice?
Such as advice on what to do where to live,the Oxford Tube(How much for a Years worth of trips)Will the University pay for daily travel of this sort?Cheap eats?Mature College?Cost?Help! I want to move from Academic life in London to Oxford.Has anyone got any advice?
There is a wide selection of flats, digs, residences, etc. Your college will help or local estate and letting agencies. There are plenty of buses, but, no, the university will not pay daily bus fares, so get yourself a bike. Usual selection of high street chains for cheap food and the large numbers of students means there are plenty of them. College for mature students (full and part-time) is Kellogg College, Oxford University. Brookes University also caters for mature students at a less stratospheric academic level. Costs are bound to be less than London but not as much as you might expect. As regards general advice, unless you are currently attending Imperial, University College or LSE, forget Oxford University. You would be eaten alive academically. Brookes is a safer option.Help! I want to move from Academic life in London to Oxford.Has anyone got any advice?
remember your teddy bear hehe
Unfortunately, it has been many years since I've lived in Oxford, although I've returned many times to visit, so I can't give you a lot of inside advice, but I CAN tell you that Oxford doesn't have a tube! I'm afraid you would be stuck with buses!
There is a wide selection of flats, digs, residences, etc. Your college will help or local estate and letting agencies. There are plenty of buses, but, no, the university will not pay daily bus fares, so get yourself a bike. Usual selection of high street chains for cheap food and the large numbers of students means there are plenty of them. College for mature students (full and part-time) is Kellogg College, Oxford University. Brookes University also caters for mature students at a less stratospheric academic level. Costs are bound to be less than London but not as much as you might expect. As regards general advice, unless you are currently attending Imperial, University College or LSE, forget Oxford University. You would be eaten alive academically. Brookes is a safer option.Help! I want to move from Academic life in London to Oxford.Has anyone got any advice?
remember your teddy bear hehe
Unfortunately, it has been many years since I've lived in Oxford, although I've returned many times to visit, so I can't give you a lot of inside advice, but I CAN tell you that Oxford doesn't have a tube! I'm afraid you would be stuck with buses!
April Fool's Day advice/ help plz!!?
There's this girl and her friends who keep teasing me and the guy i like about us liking each other (IN PERSON!!). Their saying really bad stuff and im sick of it. I want to get her back by doing a prank tomorrow. But i have no ideas. It has to be something i can do at school. And don't worry cause she won't suspect a thing! At school im a ';goody-two-shoes'; and im usually not into revenge...but this has gone WAY TO FAR. It's getting really outta control.
I've tried talking to them, they don't give a crap what i say to them.
It can't be anything that will hurt then physically..cause i have to do it at school..April Fool's Day advice/ help plz!!?
jst beat er lolmakeup help
I've tried talking to them, they don't give a crap what i say to them.
It can't be anything that will hurt then physically..cause i have to do it at school..April Fool's Day advice/ help plz!!?
jst beat er lol
I need uk legal advice, help please?
I bough a carpet from a well known supplier and had to apy upfront, æ‹¢3000. The carpet was fitted and was faulty, this was reported and checked. I was told it would be replaced in mid January. When I heard nothing, I spoke to the store manager who said we shouldn't have been told this and they would like to repair it. I said absolutely not, I paid for a perfect carpet, so an inspector is coming in a couple of weeks, 5 weeks after it was fitted and I informed them of the fault. I couldn't wait to have wardrobes fitted any longer and so rolled back the carpet only to find a veru poor underlay fitted and not the Tredaire supreme I have paid for. I immediately rang the manager who said it must be the fitters. What come back to I have? I paid by credit card but they have not responded to my mail of last week. I have also reported this to the companies head office but they refer back to the store. I have inferior carpets and they have swapped expensive underlay with rubbish. Help?I need uk legal advice, help please?
It is the company you bought from that are liable to you. It may or may not be the fitters that are actually at fault but that is up to them to sort out amongst themselves.
You are entitled to a product free from faults, blemishes etc. However, you do not have an absolute right to a full refund. If a repair is possible the seller can insist in offering you a repair not a refund if it would be unreasonable or disproportionate to give a refund. This may be such a case because of the cost involved in replacing the entire carpet. However, the repair does have to put the carpet into brand new condition for this to be acceptable.
Obviously if the underlay is also wrong then the entire carpet will have to come up. If this happens then they can't relay the same carpet anyway because they need overlap to make sure it is properly fitted.
My advice is to make your complaints in writing and to keep copies. Insist they give written replies as well. That way you have evidence to give to the credit card company that the carpet co are not co-operating.
But the fault on the back burner. Point out that the underlay is not what is required or what was paid for. Insist that the entire job is redone with fresh materials within 7 days. If they cannot comply insist in a full refund so that you can buy elsewhere. If they try to fob you off with ';it's the fitters'; remind them that under the Sale of Goods Act it is the seller who is responsible to you.I need uk legal advice, help please?
You have a back up, as you have paid ny credit card. I would contact your local trading standards office as they will help you deal with the company in question.
They will help you word a letter to the company. Send a copy of this letter to your credit card company, as this will help you, should you need to claim back off the credit card company.
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No such thing as the 'Small Claims Court' - it's the 'Small Claims Procedure in the County Court' - but you might think about alternative ways of dealing with your problem. For advice on all of these see:
http://www.hmcourts-service.gov.uk/infoa鈥?/a>
Good luck!
Get advice from the Citizen Advice as there is an upper limit for to pursue it through the small claims court.
Take this to the ';Small Claims Court';. Just call at your local Court House and one of the Clerk will advise you as to how to proceed or contact your local CAB or Town Hall.
It is the company you bought from that are liable to you. It may or may not be the fitters that are actually at fault but that is up to them to sort out amongst themselves.
You are entitled to a product free from faults, blemishes etc. However, you do not have an absolute right to a full refund. If a repair is possible the seller can insist in offering you a repair not a refund if it would be unreasonable or disproportionate to give a refund. This may be such a case because of the cost involved in replacing the entire carpet. However, the repair does have to put the carpet into brand new condition for this to be acceptable.
Obviously if the underlay is also wrong then the entire carpet will have to come up. If this happens then they can't relay the same carpet anyway because they need overlap to make sure it is properly fitted.
My advice is to make your complaints in writing and to keep copies. Insist they give written replies as well. That way you have evidence to give to the credit card company that the carpet co are not co-operating.
But the fault on the back burner. Point out that the underlay is not what is required or what was paid for. Insist that the entire job is redone with fresh materials within 7 days. If they cannot comply insist in a full refund so that you can buy elsewhere. If they try to fob you off with ';it's the fitters'; remind them that under the Sale of Goods Act it is the seller who is responsible to you.I need uk legal advice, help please?
You have a back up, as you have paid ny credit card. I would contact your local trading standards office as they will help you deal with the company in question.
They will help you word a letter to the company. Send a copy of this letter to your credit card company, as this will help you, should you need to claim back off the credit card company.
jobs abroad are certainly an exciting idea, but you have to be really watchful of the law-related implications, if you don't do your research correctly, there can be regrettable results! The resource in the box below resolves these problems because it shows how to make a living from Google, and you can do that anywhere in the world!
No such thing as the 'Small Claims Court' - it's the 'Small Claims Procedure in the County Court' - but you might think about alternative ways of dealing with your problem. For advice on all of these see:
http://www.hmcourts-service.gov.uk/infoa鈥?/a>
Good luck!
Get advice from the Citizen Advice as there is an upper limit for to pursue it through the small claims court.
Take this to the ';Small Claims Court';. Just call at your local Court House and one of the Clerk will advise you as to how to proceed or contact your local CAB or Town Hall.
PLEASE! I need some advice/help about testosterone levels and gynecomastia?
I have gynecomastia, and I've had it for a while now, so I went to the doctor and the doctor said my testosterone level is low for my age which is causing the gynecomastia. What can I do to raise my testosterone level and/or get rid of the gynecomastia? And also, the skin around my nipple is seemingly stretched from having the gynecomastia for the extended time I had it. How can I get the skin to go back to normal? Please help, I can't go swimming without being embarrassed. And so u know, i'm 5'8 1\2'; and I weigh 140 and people consider me slim. And just incase, if I do have fat around that area of the gynecomastia, how can I work the fat off?PLEASE! I need some advice/help about testosterone levels and gynecomastia?
Trust me man i know what you are going through. I am 17 and I had gynecomastia and it is so embarrassing. I had went to the Doctor and they had to check my testosterone level. My level was good so they did gynecomastia surgery and now I can take my shirt off and actually go swimming. I don't know what you have to do to get your level up but I would ask the Doctor how to do it because the surgery is worth it. You will not have to be embarrass no more and it will make you feel normal.PLEASE! I need some advice/help about testosterone levels and gynecomastia?
sorry bro i dont know what to say but have fun
Trust me man i know what you are going through. I am 17 and I had gynecomastia and it is so embarrassing. I had went to the Doctor and they had to check my testosterone level. My level was good so they did gynecomastia surgery and now I can take my shirt off and actually go swimming. I don't know what you have to do to get your level up but I would ask the Doctor how to do it because the surgery is worth it. You will not have to be embarrass no more and it will make you feel normal.PLEASE! I need some advice/help about testosterone levels and gynecomastia?
sorry bro i dont know what to say but have fun
In desperate need of advice...? help please?
I am a junior in high school and am mega-stressed. Here's some of my activities:
-Participated in Chinese dance for 6 years
- performed with a group for new year festivals
- was involved in dancing a ceremony for Confuscius
- Was in youth orchestra for 4 years in two different groups
- Was in Debate Club 1 yr
- Volunteered in a library for 4 yrs, earning over 270 hours.
- I did Wu-shu for 2 years
- President of the Table Tennis Club
- worked 2 summers for the creation of the club.
Current GPA 3.76 unweighted, weighted 4.3 / 4.2
So here's my problem, i worry that I am not good enough to attend the top-notch universities for law (georgetown, univ of chicago)
I am afraid I am going to end up going Universit of Maryland (College Park) , my state college, which is like high school all over again. My high school is really competitive, and I am not sure I am smart enough or have that extra edge that can let me go to the college of my dreams. Am I worrying too much?In desperate need of advice...? help please?
I'm part Asian and my family and most of my Asian friends felt the intense pressure to go Ive League Or Else.
Don't sweat it. I know many people who went to an Ivy League school - some are leaders, some do okay, and others are not at all successful by society's terms. Same for boring old state schools.
Seriously, when you get out of high school and get into college and beyond, you'll realize the ';right'; college isn't as critical as you think.
I would say that you are focusing on the wrong priorities. Do your best, of course, but remember that getting high grades and racking up trophies for the sake of getting high grades/trophies isn't really learning.
Believe me, I was swamped in activities and pressure, too. My brother went to an Ivy League school as an undergraduate, but got his two Master's degrees in state schools. Likewise, my sister went to a regular college, but attended an Ivy League school for her medical school.
The name of the institution isn't imporant; it is the student who is important. Don't buy into all the hype about the ';right'; school or else your life is ruined/unsatisfactory. High school is a fishbowl world, and 10 years from now you'll look back and wonder why you spent so much energy worrying about these things.In desperate need of advice...? help please?
ur fine stop worrying so much
No, that's realllly good. You should not be stressing. Keep doing what you're doing =)
i agree with Melinda. you are doing very very well and you're on your way to the University of your choice. To ease your worries you can check out what the university you are looking into has as requisites...as in grades, extra curriculars etc. you could also talk to a guidance counselor and find out if you are doing all you can to get into that school. they can most likely tell you if you're ahead of the game and if you have a chance. but it sounds to me like you're doing a great job already! keep up the good work! and try not to stress too much ( i know i know easier said than done)
lol dont worry! you can and will do the things you really want to do!
if your grades are good then so are you everyone gets stressed and it more normal than anything really just keep going and dont drop classes it doesnt help then you feel wrong about dropping it
-Participated in Chinese dance for 6 years
- performed with a group for new year festivals
- was involved in dancing a ceremony for Confuscius
- Was in youth orchestra for 4 years in two different groups
- Was in Debate Club 1 yr
- Volunteered in a library for 4 yrs, earning over 270 hours.
- I did Wu-shu for 2 years
- President of the Table Tennis Club
- worked 2 summers for the creation of the club.
Current GPA 3.76 unweighted, weighted 4.3 / 4.2
So here's my problem, i worry that I am not good enough to attend the top-notch universities for law (georgetown, univ of chicago)
I am afraid I am going to end up going Universit of Maryland (College Park) , my state college, which is like high school all over again. My high school is really competitive, and I am not sure I am smart enough or have that extra edge that can let me go to the college of my dreams. Am I worrying too much?In desperate need of advice...? help please?
I'm part Asian and my family and most of my Asian friends felt the intense pressure to go Ive League Or Else.
Don't sweat it. I know many people who went to an Ivy League school - some are leaders, some do okay, and others are not at all successful by society's terms. Same for boring old state schools.
Seriously, when you get out of high school and get into college and beyond, you'll realize the ';right'; college isn't as critical as you think.
I would say that you are focusing on the wrong priorities. Do your best, of course, but remember that getting high grades and racking up trophies for the sake of getting high grades/trophies isn't really learning.
Believe me, I was swamped in activities and pressure, too. My brother went to an Ivy League school as an undergraduate, but got his two Master's degrees in state schools. Likewise, my sister went to a regular college, but attended an Ivy League school for her medical school.
The name of the institution isn't imporant; it is the student who is important. Don't buy into all the hype about the ';right'; school or else your life is ruined/unsatisfactory. High school is a fishbowl world, and 10 years from now you'll look back and wonder why you spent so much energy worrying about these things.In desperate need of advice...? help please?
ur fine stop worrying so much
No, that's realllly good. You should not be stressing. Keep doing what you're doing =)
i agree with Melinda. you are doing very very well and you're on your way to the University of your choice. To ease your worries you can check out what the university you are looking into has as requisites...as in grades, extra curriculars etc. you could also talk to a guidance counselor and find out if you are doing all you can to get into that school. they can most likely tell you if you're ahead of the game and if you have a chance. but it sounds to me like you're doing a great job already! keep up the good work! and try not to stress too much ( i know i know easier said than done)
lol dont worry! you can and will do the things you really want to do!
if your grades are good then so are you everyone gets stressed and it more normal than anything really just keep going and dont drop classes it doesnt help then you feel wrong about dropping it
I need uk legal advice, help please?
I bough a carpet from a well known supplier and had to apy upfront, æ‹¢3000. The carpet was fitted and was faulty, this was reported and checked. I was told it would be replaced in mid January. When I heard nothing, I spoke to the store manager who said we shouldn't have been told this and they would like to repair it. I said absolutely not, I paid for a perfect carpet, so an inspector is coming in a couple of weeks, 5 weeks after it was fitted and I informed them of the fault. I couldn't wait to have wardrobes fitted any longer and so rolled back the carpet only to find a veru poor underlay fitted and not the Tredaire supreme I have paid for. I immediately rang the manager who said it must be the fitters. What come back to I have? I paid by credit card but they have not responded to my mail of last week. I have also reported this to the companies head office but they refer back to the store. I have inferior carpets and they have swapped expensive underlay with rubbish. Help?I need uk legal advice, help please?
It is the company you bought from that are liable to you. It may or may not be the fitters that are actually at fault but that is up to them to sort out amongst themselves.
You are entitled to a product free from faults, blemishes etc. However, you do not have an absolute right to a full refund. If a repair is possible the seller can insist in offering you a repair not a refund if it would be unreasonable or disproportionate to give a refund. This may be such a case because of the cost involved in replacing the entire carpet. However, the repair does have to put the carpet into brand new condition for this to be acceptable.
Obviously if the underlay is also wrong then the entire carpet will have to come up. If this happens then they can't relay the same carpet anyway because they need overlap to make sure it is properly fitted.
My advice is to make your complaints in writing and to keep copies. Insist they give written replies as well. That way you have evidence to give to the credit card company that the carpet co are not co-operating.
But the fault on the back burner. Point out that the underlay is not what is required or what was paid for. Insist that the entire job is redone with fresh materials within 7 days. If they cannot comply insist in a full refund so that you can buy elsewhere. If they try to fob you off with ';it's the fitters'; remind them that under the Sale of Goods Act it is the seller who is responsible to you.I need uk legal advice, help please?
You have a back up, as you have paid ny credit card. I would contact your local trading standards office as they will help you deal with the company in question.
They will help you word a letter to the company. Send a copy of this letter to your credit card company, as this will help you, should you need to claim back off the credit card company.
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No such thing as the 'Small Claims Court' - it's the 'Small Claims Procedure in the County Court' - but you might think about alternative ways of dealing with your problem. For advice on all of these see:
http://www.hmcourts-service.gov.uk/infoa鈥?/a>
Good luck!
Get advice from the Citizen Advice as there is an upper limit for to pursue it through the small claims court.
Take this to the ';Small Claims Court';. Just call at your local Court House and one of the Clerk will advise you as to how to proceed or contact your local CAB or Town Hall.
It is the company you bought from that are liable to you. It may or may not be the fitters that are actually at fault but that is up to them to sort out amongst themselves.
You are entitled to a product free from faults, blemishes etc. However, you do not have an absolute right to a full refund. If a repair is possible the seller can insist in offering you a repair not a refund if it would be unreasonable or disproportionate to give a refund. This may be such a case because of the cost involved in replacing the entire carpet. However, the repair does have to put the carpet into brand new condition for this to be acceptable.
Obviously if the underlay is also wrong then the entire carpet will have to come up. If this happens then they can't relay the same carpet anyway because they need overlap to make sure it is properly fitted.
My advice is to make your complaints in writing and to keep copies. Insist they give written replies as well. That way you have evidence to give to the credit card company that the carpet co are not co-operating.
But the fault on the back burner. Point out that the underlay is not what is required or what was paid for. Insist that the entire job is redone with fresh materials within 7 days. If they cannot comply insist in a full refund so that you can buy elsewhere. If they try to fob you off with ';it's the fitters'; remind them that under the Sale of Goods Act it is the seller who is responsible to you.I need uk legal advice, help please?
You have a back up, as you have paid ny credit card. I would contact your local trading standards office as they will help you deal with the company in question.
They will help you word a letter to the company. Send a copy of this letter to your credit card company, as this will help you, should you need to claim back off the credit card company.
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No such thing as the 'Small Claims Court' - it's the 'Small Claims Procedure in the County Court' - but you might think about alternative ways of dealing with your problem. For advice on all of these see:
http://www.hmcourts-service.gov.uk/infoa鈥?/a>
Good luck!
Get advice from the Citizen Advice as there is an upper limit for to pursue it through the small claims court.
Take this to the ';Small Claims Court';. Just call at your local Court House and one of the Clerk will advise you as to how to proceed or contact your local CAB or Town Hall.
I need some name advice, help! (blog)?
I just started a blog on youtube, and I need a catchy name.
My name is Adam, some people call me Micah, and I just want a name to give my blog that people will remember... something catchy, but simple.
one that i like is called whataboutadam.... but its taken...
help!I need some name advice, help! (blog)?
First, keep the title simple: Adam Johnston's Blog. You remind me of a quasi-Phil DeFranco, so you might want to take a look at his blog: (1) You need faster pacing! (2) Add some controversial content. What is a narrative without conflict? (3) Focus on what is unique about yourself - your Republican views, your love of cars (4) Pepper your commentary with endearing personal details about your flaws and struggles - people want to buy into the illusion that they know you. (5) Throw in plenty of current events and pop culture references. What is it, exactly, that you like about Kyle XY?! (6) Ask questions and suggest that your viewers post responses.I need some name advice, help! (blog)?
What about Adamike?
AdamsApples
you can try changing the spelling on that one like '; wataboutadam'; or ';watboutadam'; or maybe somethin like '; 4getAdamNot '; LOL I dunno the possibilities are endless :) just be creative and have fun with it. :)
Adam and eMicah
As is Adam and Eve. You could make your entries like they are coming from two different people.
That could be interesting!
How about ';MyCawGotCrashed'; or ';AboutaDamTimeYouReadThis'; ?
JADAM!
madamimadam
heyit'sadam
adamupinhere
whereisadam
adamnation
nextstopadam
Adams Spanner? Adam and George. Adam gets pssed at night with his Martinis?
hi
i think the best would be - adamseeu
My name is Adam, some people call me Micah, and I just want a name to give my blog that people will remember... something catchy, but simple.
one that i like is called whataboutadam.... but its taken...
help!I need some name advice, help! (blog)?
First, keep the title simple: Adam Johnston's Blog. You remind me of a quasi-Phil DeFranco, so you might want to take a look at his blog: (1) You need faster pacing! (2) Add some controversial content. What is a narrative without conflict? (3) Focus on what is unique about yourself - your Republican views, your love of cars (4) Pepper your commentary with endearing personal details about your flaws and struggles - people want to buy into the illusion that they know you. (5) Throw in plenty of current events and pop culture references. What is it, exactly, that you like about Kyle XY?! (6) Ask questions and suggest that your viewers post responses.I need some name advice, help! (blog)?
What about Adamike?
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AdamsApples
you can try changing the spelling on that one like '; wataboutadam'; or ';watboutadam'; or maybe somethin like '; 4getAdamNot '; LOL I dunno the possibilities are endless :) just be creative and have fun with it. :)
Adam and eMicah
As is Adam and Eve. You could make your entries like they are coming from two different people.
That could be interesting!
How about ';MyCawGotCrashed'; or ';AboutaDamTimeYouReadThis'; ?
JADAM!
madamimadam
heyit'sadam
adamupinhere
whereisadam
adamnation
nextstopadam
Adams Spanner? Adam and George. Adam gets pssed at night with his Martinis?
hi
i think the best would be - adamseeu
Please I need some advice... help!?
I have been dating someone for about 2 months now. I haven't told him that I have children (teens) because I wasn't sure how to approach it. It is a difficult story to tell because the man I was with was abusive in many ways (including sexually) I left him when I found out what he was doing to my daughters and we are doing a lot better though far from healed. I have been going crazy wanting to tell my boyfriend and a few times I have come close to going over to his place and running into his arms because it's all so hard to deal with and I feel so safe with him. Should I just go and tell him or should I wait (don't really want to). I've never felt like this about anyone before (not even my ex at any point). I really like him a lot. Any advice? Thank you!Please I need some advice... help!?
you should always tell him the thruth
be hones if you love him
hope i helpedPlease I need some advice... help!?
You should tell him and let him decide if it is something he wants to be apart of it compared to being forced into it with no options. I dont see why he would have a problem but if he does then he may not be the one for you. IT does not matter how we feel because we sometime want things that are not good for us. You must keep your kids in perspective as the most important thing in your life considering the things you have overcome and if he cant be accepting he is not worthy of your love. Be honest for if he is what you say he is he will be okay.
i think i'd tell him about the kids. i wouldn't necessarily mention all of the other stuff, but definitely let him know you are a mom. if you don't he'll probably think that you were deceiving him. hopefully he is really a good guy and won't let your kids scare him off. good luck!
Do what you feel in your heart, but consult with the abused daughter to get her opinion too. I would not hide the fact that I have children though. They are your blessings, whether we know it or not. My son was abused one time as well. I still sit and think about it. But it is all better now. Even with the one who abused him. He has apologized and he has not spanked my son since.
It just depends on the situation. I wouldn't rush into telling someone something like that. You don't even have to give him the full picture right away. But I would tell him that you have kids.makeup help
you should always tell him the thruth
be hones if you love him
hope i helpedPlease I need some advice... help!?
You should tell him and let him decide if it is something he wants to be apart of it compared to being forced into it with no options. I dont see why he would have a problem but if he does then he may not be the one for you. IT does not matter how we feel because we sometime want things that are not good for us. You must keep your kids in perspective as the most important thing in your life considering the things you have overcome and if he cant be accepting he is not worthy of your love. Be honest for if he is what you say he is he will be okay.
i think i'd tell him about the kids. i wouldn't necessarily mention all of the other stuff, but definitely let him know you are a mom. if you don't he'll probably think that you were deceiving him. hopefully he is really a good guy and won't let your kids scare him off. good luck!
Do what you feel in your heart, but consult with the abused daughter to get her opinion too. I would not hide the fact that I have children though. They are your blessings, whether we know it or not. My son was abused one time as well. I still sit and think about it. But it is all better now. Even with the one who abused him. He has apologized and he has not spanked my son since.
It just depends on the situation. I wouldn't rush into telling someone something like that. You don't even have to give him the full picture right away. But I would tell him that you have kids.
PLease i need some Advice help Me !!! :/?
OK so anyways its been about a month or so since me and my girlfriend have broken up were both 18 and it was our two years next month ok so heres my dilema. ok so when we broke up there was a guy right there for her and he was all sweet and what not, but then she has finaly realized hes not what she thought he was he just wanted sex. she says that she is happy and what know but how , how soo quick we had alot of things going for us and she was sweet to me and what not, but anyways last week at our school danced we danced and she was gettin all into it like(grinding) what not but she left just before the end of the song hmm she said she was hot but i dont know maybe she was just feeling things or somthing what do you guys think, like it felt soo right agian as if we were dating and i think at one point she thought soo too. do you guys think she is thinking about that night and , i wanna text her tonight but i dont know what to say i dont wanna sound like a creep, i just wanna be like a friend right now and show her im different thank youPLease i need some Advice help Me !!! :/?
idk just keep things good between you both
idk just keep things good between you both
I NEED GOOD BOY advice? HELP ME?
there is this guy i kinda like he is sweet but sometimes pushes me to kiss him or do stuff i don't want to he is in 8th grade i am in 7th. he con be nice but he has forced me to kiss him. i am moving in a month should i bother with him?
there is another guy he is sweet and cute. but he is also a year older. im quite and not very out going. so i am afraid to go to talk to him, He usually talks to me alot. he carries my books and bags and loans me his jacket when its raining and walks me to my classes.
im afraid to go leave the other guy but should i? or would that be stupidI NEED GOOD BOY advice? HELP ME?
Im a girl but i think the 2nd one is better since he actually cares bout u.I NEED GOOD BOY advice? HELP ME?
in my opinion you shouldnt even bother with the guy who makes you kiss him. that aint the guy to be foolin with. it sounds like the toher guy that carries your books and all is a lot nicer than the other guy i would go with him if i was a girl but im not so that might sound wierd but if you are leaving then dont bother with any of them. if you have a boyfriend already, then umm does he still wanna go out with you if youre gonna be moving??? if not break up with him it will be unlikley to see each other if you are gonna move outta state
This happened to me before, I had a middle school love interest and then I had to move. He only pushed me to do things like kiss a lot because he knew i was moving and figured why not get as much as possible? Its a little inconsiderate. That other guy who carries your things sounds a lot nicer. He seems to have a lot more respect for you, I would definitely give him more attention. He seems to deserve it and LIKE you, so maybe try and open up a little more?
tell the guy who wants u 2 kiss him that ur not ready for that
cuz if he doesnt wanna treat u rite hes not the guy for u
and if he isnt the guy for you
go for the other guy thats sweet and cute and carries ur books and all that
go with the other guy you like. your boyfriend seems like a fcukin moron hes just probably using you for kisses or something
dont be afraid. the second guy actualyy cares about you. the other guy just wants to get sum. best of luck.
the second one. it would not be stupid to leave the other guy. the second one seems like he actually cares for you.
dont get attached, leave it for a month and meet someone new
why bother when your moving and not going to see them again
The fact is your moving and you will soon be meeting a whole new world of boys. As far as the boy you like, your really not here long enough to do much. You can ask him if he has an e mail that you could have to write to him. When your not face to face it is much easier to tell someone how you feel. In this e mail you will have an opportunity to let him know how you feel. Spend time thinking about what you would like to say at that time. You can actually become VERY close in writing to a person! If he has an Instant messenger that would be good also, or a home address, so you can write to him. EVERYONE loves MAIL!
and personally I would ditch the aggressive guy, no one needs THAT! I work in a middle school and see this often. I know how your feeling. He is not worth your time, the other guy sounds WONDERFUL!
Well, the first ';guy'; as you put it, needs to control his hormones, okay. Don't ever let a ';guy'; force him self on you. Never let anyone touch you as far as that goes. His forced kisses can be avoided. Just turn your head. And then let him know that you don't do that. And to please stop! And don't do it anymore or else.
Be firm.
If you give a guy an inch he'll take a mile.
And if you are moving in a month and you are bothered by him and all his advances and still wondering what you should do with him? HM. Sounds to me that you may have feelings for him just a little or maybe you like the attention. But only you can decide what you want to do. If it where I, I would move on.
And the other guy who is cute and sweet, um, aren't you moving soon?
Don't miss inter pet his actions. He is just being a friend. He's being nice to you by loaning you his jacket and carrying your books. It's called, being a gentlemen.
I use to do the same thing for girls. I didn't mean anything else than that.
You should say your good bye's to both guys and move on. You will meet more people and you will make new friends.
Remember! Don't let anyone force their intentions on you!
there is another guy he is sweet and cute. but he is also a year older. im quite and not very out going. so i am afraid to go to talk to him, He usually talks to me alot. he carries my books and bags and loans me his jacket when its raining and walks me to my classes.
im afraid to go leave the other guy but should i? or would that be stupidI NEED GOOD BOY advice? HELP ME?
Im a girl but i think the 2nd one is better since he actually cares bout u.I NEED GOOD BOY advice? HELP ME?
in my opinion you shouldnt even bother with the guy who makes you kiss him. that aint the guy to be foolin with. it sounds like the toher guy that carries your books and all is a lot nicer than the other guy i would go with him if i was a girl but im not so that might sound wierd but if you are leaving then dont bother with any of them. if you have a boyfriend already, then umm does he still wanna go out with you if youre gonna be moving??? if not break up with him it will be unlikley to see each other if you are gonna move outta state
This happened to me before, I had a middle school love interest and then I had to move. He only pushed me to do things like kiss a lot because he knew i was moving and figured why not get as much as possible? Its a little inconsiderate. That other guy who carries your things sounds a lot nicer. He seems to have a lot more respect for you, I would definitely give him more attention. He seems to deserve it and LIKE you, so maybe try and open up a little more?
tell the guy who wants u 2 kiss him that ur not ready for that
cuz if he doesnt wanna treat u rite hes not the guy for u
and if he isnt the guy for you
go for the other guy thats sweet and cute and carries ur books and all that
go with the other guy you like. your boyfriend seems like a fcukin moron hes just probably using you for kisses or something
dont be afraid. the second guy actualyy cares about you. the other guy just wants to get sum. best of luck.
the second one. it would not be stupid to leave the other guy. the second one seems like he actually cares for you.
dont get attached, leave it for a month and meet someone new
why bother when your moving and not going to see them again
The fact is your moving and you will soon be meeting a whole new world of boys. As far as the boy you like, your really not here long enough to do much. You can ask him if he has an e mail that you could have to write to him. When your not face to face it is much easier to tell someone how you feel. In this e mail you will have an opportunity to let him know how you feel. Spend time thinking about what you would like to say at that time. You can actually become VERY close in writing to a person! If he has an Instant messenger that would be good also, or a home address, so you can write to him. EVERYONE loves MAIL!
and personally I would ditch the aggressive guy, no one needs THAT! I work in a middle school and see this often. I know how your feeling. He is not worth your time, the other guy sounds WONDERFUL!
Well, the first ';guy'; as you put it, needs to control his hormones, okay. Don't ever let a ';guy'; force him self on you. Never let anyone touch you as far as that goes. His forced kisses can be avoided. Just turn your head. And then let him know that you don't do that. And to please stop! And don't do it anymore or else.
Be firm.
If you give a guy an inch he'll take a mile.
And if you are moving in a month and you are bothered by him and all his advances and still wondering what you should do with him? HM. Sounds to me that you may have feelings for him just a little or maybe you like the attention. But only you can decide what you want to do. If it where I, I would move on.
And the other guy who is cute and sweet, um, aren't you moving soon?
Don't miss inter pet his actions. He is just being a friend. He's being nice to you by loaning you his jacket and carrying your books. It's called, being a gentlemen.
I use to do the same thing for girls. I didn't mean anything else than that.
You should say your good bye's to both guys and move on. You will meet more people and you will make new friends.
Remember! Don't let anyone force their intentions on you!
I need sum serious advice!!!help!!!?
my friend and her fiance are having a problem...shes been talking about it for awhileeeeeeeeeeeeeeee nowwwwwww-lol-her fiance masturbates atleast 10 times a day..and he talks about it all the time! he watches porn on a daily basis but constantly talks about it~he tells everybody about their sex life-talks about sex CONSTANTLY!! Then last week i went out with them to dinner-and he fkn TRYED to show me a pic of some girl that was 14 who sent him a nude pic of her chest-stupid mother ******!! I was very upset-considering that im a survivor of sexual abuse-i knocked the phone out of his hand~-i need advice for my friend-what can i tell her-shes soppose to get married to him!! by the way she has a daughter-which is my husbands daughter!!please someone give me sum advise-i refuse to turn my head the other way-this guy comes from a wealthy-happy lifestyle-great family-but i dont give a ****-im worried for my friend and my step daughter-my friend does know shes thinks she can change himI need sum serious advice!!!help!!!?
Well congrats on you for being a good friend. You need to explain to your friend that there is a such thing as being addicted to sex, which he sounds like it is. And to make matters worse he is starting to prey on young girls which isn't good. And who is to say that he won't eventually hurt the little girl. She needs to give him an ultimatum....either he get some help for his problem or she is going to leave him and this way she can really see if he loves her more than sex and if he doens't she shouldn't be with him anyway. Hope it helps!I need sum serious advice!!!help!!!?
Honey, it sounds like she doesnt know the whole deal! I would say she should support him and get him some counseling. But if he is looking at underage girls she needs to ditch that creep!
advice: you are F'd in the head with this one...see as SHRINK and get the pills!!!
he is a sexual deviant and she should watch out for her children sounds like he's over the top!
ok ten times a day ? .. he must be addicted to sex ... if your friend thinks she can change him after they are married she is probably wrong , most people that arent willing to change something before marriage sure arent going to change after marriage , the big thing here is him chatting/talking to 14 year olds and having them send him pictures, thats just wrong , your friend surely cant believe that its okay to do that , id be afraid that he would try it on her daughter in the near future if he hasnt already ... i dont care what kind of family he comes from it doesnt make it ok that he is getting off by little girls.
IT sounds like you have an issue with a relationship that you aren't even part of. If she is ok with his sexual preferences, it's none of your business.
Well congrats on you for being a good friend. You need to explain to your friend that there is a such thing as being addicted to sex, which he sounds like it is. And to make matters worse he is starting to prey on young girls which isn't good. And who is to say that he won't eventually hurt the little girl. She needs to give him an ultimatum....either he get some help for his problem or she is going to leave him and this way she can really see if he loves her more than sex and if he doens't she shouldn't be with him anyway. Hope it helps!I need sum serious advice!!!help!!!?
Honey, it sounds like she doesnt know the whole deal! I would say she should support him and get him some counseling. But if he is looking at underage girls she needs to ditch that creep!
advice: you are F'd in the head with this one...see as SHRINK and get the pills!!!
he is a sexual deviant and she should watch out for her children sounds like he's over the top!
ok ten times a day ? .. he must be addicted to sex ... if your friend thinks she can change him after they are married she is probably wrong , most people that arent willing to change something before marriage sure arent going to change after marriage , the big thing here is him chatting/talking to 14 year olds and having them send him pictures, thats just wrong , your friend surely cant believe that its okay to do that , id be afraid that he would try it on her daughter in the near future if he hasnt already ... i dont care what kind of family he comes from it doesnt make it ok that he is getting off by little girls.
IT sounds like you have an issue with a relationship that you aren't even part of. If she is ok with his sexual preferences, it's none of your business.
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Omfg, I need love advice.. =/ help plz!!?
Okay look, I've been goin out w/this guy for 9 months now! Its been so .. Wow! We've been thru so much.. I prety much lost it 2 him..
And now lately all he does is piss me off make me cry. And I no I can be the bad one sometimes too. Only bad thing bout me is, sometimes I am too jealous! So yea.. He idk jus makes me feel like crap 70% of the time now!
So there's this other guy I met like the 1st of november. And wow, he's soo so nice to me. I no he likes me like a lot! He makes rlly happy... but I jus cnt break it off w/my bf. Im afraid im too stuk 2 him now! Srsly I feel trapped or smthn! Wat should I do people?
I srsly need help!! And look I dnt wna stop tlkn 2 this guy cuz evry time my bf makes me feel bad I go to him n he makes me feel bettr..!
N I rlly cnt break up w/my bf, I feel like I've gone too far.. As in he's met like allllllllll of my fam. Alrdy! U no all tht!
So plz ppl! Wat wuld u do!?!?Omfg, I need love advice.. =/ help plz!!?
Post in the right forum.
FleurOmfg, I need love advice.. =/ help plz!!?
If you really want to work it out with your boyfriend you need to tell him what you're saying on here (minus the other guy part, obviously). Just tell him you aren't happy in the relationship and what you feel needs to change. Feeling trapped isn't a good feeling and a relationship should be one of the happiest things in your life- don't cheat yourself. Do what makes you happy.
i would say break it off with your boy friend for you and him. it isn't healthy to be like that and maybe this other guy is the one for you at least you have some one to go to and whatever you do don't regret it learn from it that's all you can do.
so he treats you like crap verbally abuses you....dump him no woman deserves that.if you put yourself through that youll simply make yourself misrable.MOVE ON!the other guy obviously knows how to treat a woman get to know him and maybe establish a relationship.
I think you should just jerk off
plain and simple ever girl deserves her prince and deserves to be treated like a queen dont forget that and no matter what dont settle
DUMP HIM !!!
Trust me I have been through this before.....well I felt like that but there was a twist the guy that made me feel better was my bestfriends boyfriend!! Well one day you will get over this boyfriend, dont let any boy treat you like that!! Tell him how you feel and it needs to be fixed, or you guys are going to break up. But other than that trust your gut and do what you feel is right. Get your moms idea on what to do also because my mom helped me alot through this when it happend..I got through it and I know that you will too.
I hoped I helped(:
If he makes you feel bad, he does not deserve you. If you really think the other guy is worth leaving your boyfriend for, then do it. Try talking to your boyfriend (not about the other guy) and telling him that you haven't been happy lately with how you've been feeling. If he tries to make things better, he is worth keeping. Also, ask yourself why you've stayed with him for nine months. If it is only because you are afraid that you're too attached, then it is time to break it off and move on. If it is because you have deep feelings for him, then you can work it out with him because it will be worth it. Good luck!
if you really care about your bf like that you should be able to talk to him, dont go break up with your bf because somebody else makes you happy, thats dumb because if you think back im pretty sure when you first met your bf he made you just as happy as this new kid if not maybe happier.. do you really want to throw 9 months away for some new kid? deep down you dont like this new kid, u only go to him because your bf is making you feel bad..
my point is, dont break up something you have for something new because you will miss what you had when the new thing doesnt work out that well...
there is still time for you and your bf to fix things up but u gotta really sit down with him and say hey listen, lately u been makin me feel like ****.. and go on from there. if he cares about you he'll listen. make sure u assure him ur not talking to him to attack him or put him on blast. just cuz u care and u wanna make things work..
and dont take advice from ppl who told u to break up with him right off the bat. its not them who know him, its u. so if you really deep down think this is a lost cause.. then you break up with him. but NEVER break up with him for somebody else. and if hes not mr right and u dont end up marrying this guy.. the same advice goes for anyone else you might get involved with.. cuz trust me what goes around def comes back around..
And now lately all he does is piss me off make me cry. And I no I can be the bad one sometimes too. Only bad thing bout me is, sometimes I am too jealous! So yea.. He idk jus makes me feel like crap 70% of the time now!
So there's this other guy I met like the 1st of november. And wow, he's soo so nice to me. I no he likes me like a lot! He makes rlly happy... but I jus cnt break it off w/my bf. Im afraid im too stuk 2 him now! Srsly I feel trapped or smthn! Wat should I do people?
I srsly need help!! And look I dnt wna stop tlkn 2 this guy cuz evry time my bf makes me feel bad I go to him n he makes me feel bettr..!
N I rlly cnt break up w/my bf, I feel like I've gone too far.. As in he's met like allllllllll of my fam. Alrdy! U no all tht!
So plz ppl! Wat wuld u do!?!?Omfg, I need love advice.. =/ help plz!!?
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FleurOmfg, I need love advice.. =/ help plz!!?
If you really want to work it out with your boyfriend you need to tell him what you're saying on here (minus the other guy part, obviously). Just tell him you aren't happy in the relationship and what you feel needs to change. Feeling trapped isn't a good feeling and a relationship should be one of the happiest things in your life- don't cheat yourself. Do what makes you happy.
i would say break it off with your boy friend for you and him. it isn't healthy to be like that and maybe this other guy is the one for you at least you have some one to go to and whatever you do don't regret it learn from it that's all you can do.
so he treats you like crap verbally abuses you....dump him no woman deserves that.if you put yourself through that youll simply make yourself misrable.MOVE ON!the other guy obviously knows how to treat a woman get to know him and maybe establish a relationship.
I think you should just jerk off
plain and simple ever girl deserves her prince and deserves to be treated like a queen dont forget that and no matter what dont settle
DUMP HIM !!!
Trust me I have been through this before.....well I felt like that but there was a twist the guy that made me feel better was my bestfriends boyfriend!! Well one day you will get over this boyfriend, dont let any boy treat you like that!! Tell him how you feel and it needs to be fixed, or you guys are going to break up. But other than that trust your gut and do what you feel is right. Get your moms idea on what to do also because my mom helped me alot through this when it happend..I got through it and I know that you will too.
I hoped I helped(:
If he makes you feel bad, he does not deserve you. If you really think the other guy is worth leaving your boyfriend for, then do it. Try talking to your boyfriend (not about the other guy) and telling him that you haven't been happy lately with how you've been feeling. If he tries to make things better, he is worth keeping. Also, ask yourself why you've stayed with him for nine months. If it is only because you are afraid that you're too attached, then it is time to break it off and move on. If it is because you have deep feelings for him, then you can work it out with him because it will be worth it. Good luck!
if you really care about your bf like that you should be able to talk to him, dont go break up with your bf because somebody else makes you happy, thats dumb because if you think back im pretty sure when you first met your bf he made you just as happy as this new kid if not maybe happier.. do you really want to throw 9 months away for some new kid? deep down you dont like this new kid, u only go to him because your bf is making you feel bad..
my point is, dont break up something you have for something new because you will miss what you had when the new thing doesnt work out that well...
there is still time for you and your bf to fix things up but u gotta really sit down with him and say hey listen, lately u been makin me feel like ****.. and go on from there. if he cares about you he'll listen. make sure u assure him ur not talking to him to attack him or put him on blast. just cuz u care and u wanna make things work..
and dont take advice from ppl who told u to break up with him right off the bat. its not them who know him, its u. so if you really deep down think this is a lost cause.. then you break up with him. but NEVER break up with him for somebody else. and if hes not mr right and u dont end up marrying this guy.. the same advice goes for anyone else you might get involved with.. cuz trust me what goes around def comes back around..
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