Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Can anyone give girl help/advice?

I have always had issues with getting any girl to even notice me at school. I'm not physically attractive, which is the worst part, any other ideas?Can anyone give girl help/advice?
be nice and sweet and funny...the right girl will like ur personality, not just ur looksCan anyone give girl help/advice?
The single women I know all tell me the same thing. If they like the guy's personality enough, their appearance starts to weigh a lot less on the ';dateability'; scale.





I think the most important thing for you to do is focus on your passions and talents. Perhaps you are in to chess or some other sport? Perhaps you like astronomy or singing in the church choir or drama club or football or ...well, I don't know...what ever it is you are in to, get involved with groups, meetings, or online clubs or any way that you can.





This will help you in two ways. First, you will be enjoying yourself. Second, you will be putting yourself ';out there';, and the women who find you in these environments will automatically have something in common with you! Your personality will be at it's peak when you are discussing something you are passionate about.





The most important piece of this puzzle is to NOT see this as a way to ';get chicks';. Rather, see this as a form of personal development/improvement, or just plain FUN!





An additional benefit is that after a while participating in your activity of choice, you are bound to become better/more knowledgeable about said activity. This will boost your confidence and you will be far more particular in the women you will deem ';acceptible';. You will think more highly of yourself and will not come off as ';desperate'; for any girl to give you the time of day.





(not saying that you come off as desperate but just telling you how to avoid that)





I hope you found this advice helpful.





All the best,





Jamie
be talkative, show some humor. Be in those popularity contests, IE: student council, homecoming court...(thats if you have a good personality to back it up).






maybe you should try approaching girls, flirt with them show them your great personality.
Be friends first!

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