Just hang out like friends would and have a good time. You don't *have* to kiss him or hold hands all the time. If he pressures you into having sex, then you probably shouldn't stay with him.
Don't use the word ';love';. It's too soon, and young guys freak out at that word. And DO NOT call him or text him every second of every single day. That looks needy, and it drives the guy away. Be independent :)
The point of a relationship is to be happy with the other person and have fun. So just have a good time!I am 14 and i just got my first boyfriend, i dont know what to do! help! (advice)?
go out and have fun like movies bowling any thing really.
Just get too know him and have fun :)
No one says you have to go as far as sex or anything like that, just enjoy each others company!
You move with it. Like water flowing down a river.
Sounds hard to say.
Just talk to him, get him the opportunity to know you. You can talk to him about anything as long as you are comfortable with it. The more comfortable you two are together the more you guys can let open who you two are as people. Try and relate with him, I know you two are still young but by that I mean try and find something you two have in common and share it with each other. Its all about chemistry and bonding.
Be crafty too, you know make him gifts or tell him jokes if he is already laughing at the jokes you tell him. Timing is key to both of these things. And by crafty also means crafty dating too. Movies are too cliche and dermb, you guys won't even be talking to each other and the whole evening is wasted on not talking to each other, this stage is usually in later in the relationship anyways. Try picnics or dining out or even bowling if that's what you two can enjoy anything that will involve you two getting to know each other on a better scale.
If you two like talking to each other everyday then talk to each other everyday there shouldn't be any stupid rule against not getting able to know each other. And if you two don't then let him call you every once in a while and call him after he calls you(not literally like 2 minutes but you know a day or two afterwards).
BUT if your too infatuated and all that crafty talkative nonsense we call courting is not working then your going to have to try extra hard to keep your cool. Be relaxed.
If you feel anything special with this guy then hopefully it can turn into genuine love. MAKE EXTRA SURE HE RECIPROCATES WHAT YOU FEEL. With that I mean don't ask him straight up just notice signs or if he tells you. It should definitely be obvious when the time comes when and if he's smitten for you.
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