Im very sad today.. any advice.. help?

today is my ex boyfriends birthday


i sent him a text saying happy birthday


but im at work and all i can do is be sad





everytime i see the date it reminds me its his birthday


and that i am not a part of it.


i am okay with not being with him, but for some reason, today is really hard. i want to give him a big b-day hug and make sure he has the greatest day ever.





but he has someone else to do that for him now.


and that is okay.





either way. im really sad. i cant focus. and it just brings tears to me eyes. thanks for any words of wisdom. Im very sad today.. any advice.. help?
Honey, it happens to the best of us. Keep holding your head up high and try to move on with your life. The more that you try to act like it doesn't bother you, the less satisfaction he gets out of it. Also, do something that you really like and enjoy to get this off of your mind. You sound like you deserve somebody better, and there's somebody out there for everyone... All you need to do is keep looking. =] And another thing that might help is have a night in with your closest girl friends and have a good cry and let it all out, and then move on. Everyone needs to vent about stuff. =]





Good luck, and I hope I was a help. =]Im very sad today.. any advice.. help?
it is because you are human. you have memory and you have feelings. you should let them all be but the important thing that makes you unique in a kind is the ability to think and decide on doing the best thing for you, no matter what the result is. Have fun and enjoy this sadness because you are going to become happy soon.
I knwo what you mean I'm really sorry you juts have to stay strong and give it more time and get out a little maybe youneed a rebound or just get out with your friends and I mean that in the nicest way possible or course
His birthday has nothin to do with it U are just using that as an excuse to cover up fact that U still have strong feelings 4 him!!
Don't be sad, don't be sad, be glad you have someone, nah mean?
I am really sry... Hopefully tomorrow will be better. If you truley love them, you will want them to be happy.. it sucks..it does... trust me ...
sounds to me like your depressed because you have'nt gotten over your ex yet.
Hi Fran,





Just give it some time. You'll be OK.





Take care,


- Charlie
I'm sorry. Its gotta be hard I know but you need to uplift your self from this and keep keeping on. You can always though think about the good times you had i mean doesn't that make you smile now? It would to me. just remember this all happened for a very good reason and yeah you dont see it now but hun i promise you, you will. Keep the head up high and keep smiling. its nice though that you wished him a b-day and it probably even stings more that hes sharing this special day of his with another female but hey its happens. it sucks but it happens. You'll find your prince and all of this right now will fade away. good Luck:)
You are learning why it is SOOOOOO important to move into relationships slowly and not Bond, especially physically with someone until you are ready.


It is hard to give up someone you have bonded with but you and millions of others have done it and lived.


Please be careful in the future and go slow while getting to know the next guy and you should do better. I know you are not even thinking of the next guy yet and are much more focused on the girl that is there instead of you but, put it behind you and if you really loved him, you would want him to be happy and he has moved on with his life so try to say a prayer for his happiness and you will feel better right after you do.


Just try it.


You are so cool!