EVERYONE PLEASE READ advice help reasons answers greatly appreciated?

Please read story answer if u understand only excuse me for any errors.Why do u think things changed for better for us.When we were in online relationship its different from face to face in person relationship.I was in both with same person,a man ive known decades through family.We are friends past 7years.When we had online relationship there were problems like he would get upset argue call names wouldnt realise if neither was happy sad angry.But after we give it another try in person relationship everything changed no more name calling when upset angry we take time out then talk.Online he would get away with name calling get upset angry shut off.After face to face in person relationship more in love got married after it.





Why do u think this change for us from online to face to face in person relationship.Partners 30s im 20s explain why do u think change for us for better serious answers explain ty.EVERYONE PLEASE READ advice help reasons answers greatly appreciated?
This is a little confusing, but I THINK I have an idea of what u are asking.


It is always easier to be mean to someone over the phone or online. When u are face 2 face it's not as easy to be mean. That is the only thing I can think of. I guess maybe after seeing you face 2 face he just fell deeper in love and decided to change his mean ways before he lost you. I guess that could be an explaination for the change in his behavior. It is also very confusing to communicate online because you can't see the person and you really do not know their demeanor when they are typing. You can misconstrue something harmless as something mean. My husband and I get into arguments alot because we misunderstood something written in an email or on messenger. It his easy tot ake things out of context...except of course, the name calling. That was wrong. Maybe he just realized that he better change before he lost u %26amp; it had nothing to do w/being online or being face 2 face.EVERYONE PLEASE READ advice help reasons answers greatly appreciated?
when your on the net it's very easy to say things and be ways you wouldn't be in person. the computer is not a living breathing thing standing in front of you.. He might have changed because he's gotten to know you in person. but the name calling perplexes me. why would you continue to see someone who has called you names on the net or in person? i hope he has applogised to you for that.
On-line allows us to put on a different face as we do not see that person and to an extent we lose our inhibitions as we are able to hide behind the computer screens. To a degree on-line relationship can be superficial but when you meet the person face to face I believe you tend to be little more honest.
I am surprised that disrespectful online behavior and respectful face-to-face behavior come from the same person.





Maybe he has matured since the online days.





I really don't know.
I'm not sure , but apparently something clicked for ya'll , in my opionion your lucky you found each other in the first place , online dating is usually pretty risky . But sometimes taking a risk can change your whole perpective on life itself . i hope this a least somewhat answers your question .





Good Luck !!!!! And Congrats on your marriage .





Sarah L.