Heeeeeeeeeeeelp Pls Im Screaming for advice Help?

What would you do if you had a man in your life that would do anything in his power to please you in every way possible. And I do mean anything. I mean this man loves me to death and unconditionally. But there's a problem he never has any money because he drinks and party alot. He's an alcoholic and when he's not drinking he the greatest person you would want to know. My issue is that he make a good living he makes triple what i make. Off my salary i can only provide for myself on his salary he can provide for a family of 4 without any help. Now here's another thing he's always asking for money from me and for the first time in a long time told him no because i feel that he looks at me as the go to person when he run out of money now he pays back but im tired of him ******* over his money when he could me saving it. I felt bad when i told him know because over all he's a good person but has bad habits. So my question is would i be selfish to just let him go without helping him manage his money and helping him with his drinking problem (even though I have tried to help him on several occasion but it didn't work). Or should i stick around because he's over all a good person(but im tried of be the one to loan him money when all he do is blow his). Also we are not teenagers here he's in his late 30's. I basically given up.Heeeeeeeeeeeelp Pls Im Screaming for advice Help?
Babe, it's never worth it if there's alcohol involved. When someone has a problem with it, it never is good. He can make all the money in the world and say he loves you, but if he does not love himself, it is not going to work no matter how hard U try. HE has to try, and correct it. You can't consistantly make excuses up for him esp. in a relationship. If will always be a terrible factor in your relationship until he gets help himself and stays in a good state of mind.





Realize this now before you invest more of your life into someone that doesn't love themselves.Heeeeeeeeeeeelp Pls Im Screaming for advice Help?
take him to aa eeting help him don't leave him if you love him you might regret it one day help him if hr llove you he'll change








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Life is too short to be putting up with stuff like that sweetie!





First of all, call me old school, but I don't feel like men should EVER ask a woman to borrow money.





I sense that you've got a good heart, but you just happen to attract the wrong people!





He probably is a nice guy, but if he didn't accept your help to stop his drinking than you can't REALLY say that he'll do ANYTHING for you...now can you?





Let him worry about providing for himself and you worry about providing for yourself! If he wants to treat you to something fine, but this coming to you to borrow money has GOT to stop!





With touchy subjects like this, you may have to let go of his friendship for a while to get the message across to him!





Good luck honey!
what you should do about his alcohol prob is take hom to those classes for alcohalic people but dont tell him were you guys are going or try a bet with him like if can go two weeks without drinking or partying and by the end of the bet he'll probably be over his addiction and you should talk to him and his parents about saving his money like tell him that if he saves alot of his money he could start bying alot of things (e.x like a car,tv,dvd,) and when you guys go out make sure he brings money and you do too but you only pay for yourself.