Saturday, August 21, 2010

Need some serious advice, HELP!!?

I've been casually dating one of my guy friends, we're NOT bf/gf. We see each other about once a week and chat and email everyday. We've held hands, cuddled, he's kissed me on the cheek, but I haven't kissed him yet. He makes comments like ';you're sweet';, ';wish you were here';, ';miss you so much';....


would it be too forward of me to sign my next email:


XOXO Sara


I just don't want to scare him off cause he's kind of shy, I just want to be kind of flirty.Need some serious advice, HELP!!?
it doesn't seem too bad if you signed it like that. maybe if you want to wait a little longer and see how things are, and if things progress and you feel more comfortable saying that then sure, so ahead. in my opinion, if i was dating a girl and that girl sent that to me, i would like that haha :DNeed some serious advice, HELP!!?
xoxoxo isn't too bad, you shouldn't scare him off just by doing that, he's a guy after all, he probably won't even notice! you may be making a big deal, he's had the guts to say stuff like ';wish you were here'; and ';you're sweet';, so maybe he's hinting at something! He may just be waiting for you to sound as keen! You're friends anyway, a few xoxoxo's on a page shouldn't effect that even if he doesn't want to be your boyfriend!


Hope this helps, if so, make me the best answer!!! :D


Good luck x x x
xoxo isnt too forward just a general closing.





maybe he feels like he doenst wanna push u cause if u dont really like him n are using him for convenience or whatever then ull back away. remember guys arent as confident as they want u to think.





message him out the blue n say hey was just thinkin of u hope ur having a good day or something along thos elines but make sur eu say i was thinkin of u. start to be a lil more flirtatious n maybe hell catch on soon. or one night if u feel brave text him n say u kinda like him but u dont knwo how he feels about u. the worst that can happen is he doesnt like u. if thats teh case then who cares cause there are millions of people in the world !
i don't think it would be too forward for you to sign your next email like that. if you like him go for it. if he is shy and hasn't taken the next step, but it's obvious that he likes you then you should do something, like signing your emails like that. good luck!
sounds like he really loves yoyu. and it suonds like that situation in the book new moon. lol if you read the twilight series you'll know what i'm talking about. so yeah, if you like him then go for it cuz it suonds like he's making an effort to be with you.


good luck
if you guys have been casually dating and have started saying cute things to each other, its ok to sign that way. its not like you are confessing your undying love for him. its cute to sign that way. it shouldn't scare him off
I don't think it will be too much. I think is kind of means about the same thing as he's saying with the cute comments. It sounds perfect-not too much, but just enough. Hope I helped! =]
if hes saying that stuff to you... then you can say that stuff to him :)
I think that it's a good way of letting him know that you like him. Go for it.
I dont think that would be a big deal!! go ahead and xoxo this message!
no that would be sweet and he would prolly like it!





best of luck! on dating him..lol
No, i think you should put it.
maybe just try a 1 X...keep him wanting more :D
go ahead. Sounds sexy...
';We've held hands, cuddled, he's kissed me on the cheek, but I haven't kissed him yet.'; And you also say, ';I just don't want to scare him off cause he's kind of shy, I just want to be kind of flirty.';?! Girl, you are very scared of a relationship or a very shy girl and afraid to admit it in life. You say he's shy (but he's kissed you) and you have not shown him any affection yet!? Grow up or move back in with your mommy. Kissing you on the cheek and making comments like he does shows his maturity and affection towards you. If you don't know how to kiss him back, hold him close, caress him, or show your physical abilities towards him you're soon your going to go through a lot of men before you finally change and show your similar feelings towards one another. Once again, in response to your statements ';We've held hands, cuddled, he's kissed me on the cheek, but I haven't kissed him yet.'; And you also say, ';I just don't want to scare him off cause he's kind of shy, I just want to be kind of flirty.';?! Girl, you are very scared of a relationship or a very shy girl and afraid to admit it in life. You say he's shy (but he's kissed you) and you have not shown him any affection yet!? You are the nervous, scared, shy one in this relationship. He's much more mature than you at this time. Good luck.

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