Wednesday, August 18, 2010

I need guy advice. Help?!?

i like two guys and i'm SO confused.





the first guy is my ex boyfriend. we broke up, but the reason wasn't because we stopped liking each other. and i never really stopped liking him.


but this other guy that i met, i like him a lot too. and they both like me, so now i don't know what to do. plus, they both have like a lot in common, and that just kills me even more.


i don't want to hurt their feelings. i really don't. but i know that i might just hurt both their feelings and that sucks. =/





any advice? i REALLY need it.I need guy advice. Help?!?
personally, I would never date an ex, regardless of the reason we broke up. Too much baggage, too much drama, too many conflicts.





In your case, the guys are similar, but one has to be better than the other. There's no way they're exactly the same. Once you realize that, you have to stop thinking about hurting the other one and just go with your feelings, because in the end it's up to you. You can't let them make the decision for you. If you honestly can't choose, see if you can talk to their best friends or even exes to see if they're someone you want to date.





Hope this helps!I need guy advice. Help?!?
thiknk about who ud be more compadible with....and u culd c urself with and ud be happy with....then picture u standing with both of them infront of u and they both asked u to kiss them at the same time....if u pic ur ex the new guy never talks to u again and if u pic ur new guy ur ex never talks to u again...its a hard thing to imagine but it helped my friend wen she was going through something like this
I think you should go back out with your ex because you uys got history and he knows you betta then da next dude.


But you dont have to hurt da otha guy feelings.


Jus keep it real with him .


Dont tell him da truth %26amp; still be his friend.
you are a lucky gal.Now you have both, LOVE and LUST.enjoy while its still there.'


';These too shall pass.';
Did it ever occur to you that you might be the one to get hurt. You seem to be enjoying the interest of these two guys rather than been confused; your ego and pride is getting a major boost right now. I want you to consider the following facts : 1) If you and your ex never fell out of love with each other why are you exes . 2) when did you meet the new guy-before or after you broke up with your ex 3) if you never stopped having feelings for your ex, how come you developed feelings for another guy who is similar to your ex. 4) do they know about each other ;if not ,why have you not said anything if you are so concerned about hurting either one of them. 5) Finally if your feelings for your ex is as strong as you say it is, then your only choice is to end it with the new guy. Unless this is an ego thing for you or you are afraid they will both end it with you if they discover your game, your decision is clear and there should be no confusion here.

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