i just found out from my best friend that she is goin to move (i read it in myspace)but i cant talk to her cuz shes on vacation
her brother is my ex and we still love eachother deeply(we broke up for a reason but thats a whole differ story)
so if they move i might never be able to see him
i dont feel like moving on?
and im kinda mad at him for something that happened i dont know if i should talk to him about it but i dont want us to fight if hes gonna move soon
or just keep it inside and let it hurt me so i wont end up ruining anything?
wat should i do????My life basicly sux asss right now PLEASE somebody who thinks has goo advice help me in this tragity!!?
It's probably good to talk to him as much as you can to get it all out. Don't let it bottle up inside. If them moving is out of their control than you will just have to deal by making amends and trying to leave on a good note. This is a sad, hard part of life but you will be OK. You will come out stronger. Good Luck! Don't be sad. Think of it as the next chapter of your life.My life basicly sux asss right now PLEASE somebody who thinks has goo advice help me in this tragity!!?
You should cheer up and don't worry life happens for a reason and everything in it occurs for a reson so don't worry make the best of any situation and if your relationship was good for a time beng then be happy for what you had and look foward to doing better on the next one, learn from the past, live in the present, and always look foward to a bright future. Oh ya always smile to, people will wonder what you are on. LOL ;)
Have sex with him
aww. dont worry, youll be in your late-teens soon.
Oh poor baby. I have had this happen to me before.
All you can do is talk to him. Tell him you wish there was some way for him to stay there with you. Manybe find out where he will be moving to . Maybe even try hooking back up with him. Then if you guys are back together, he will be able to call you every other day or something. And if you don't waht to hook up with him, become very, very close friends to where your love is friendship love. Very close friendship love.Or become friends with benefits. That way whenever he is in town you can go out as close friends and not bf%26amp;gf.Well that's all the advice I can think of right now. Hope my advice is very helpful to you. DJ
what is keeping u from discussing it out for good or for bad.
I believe it's better to let him know what you feel ... maybe some issues will change due to that conversation
You need to talk to both of them before they move, let them know your honest feelings. stop playing games with people. You will need to move on, since you and the guy have already broken up. Let him go! You and your friend can stll keep n touch via e-mail, letters, phone calls, and visits. It does not mean the end of the friendship. One of my best friends lives across the country, but will still talk and visti each other.
I would talk to him and tell him what you read and ask him if it's true. If he cares for you too, he will have something to say about it or show you some emotion.
you need to forgive and forget hell always be in your heart but theres a few guys that are real nice, loving, and caring.So dont let it break your heart.Go find a nice new friend or a group of friends and go to dinner, or paintballing, or bowling do some thing fun and mabey youl find a nicer friend or boyfriend.
ask yourself two things right now... was the reason you guys broke up a good reason? and do you really love him or did you love him. and if so . talk to him try to work some kinda comprimise out so that you can at least communicate through letters or phone. trust me just because hes moving away doesnt mean hes gone forever . and if you dont truelly love him then sweetheart as much as you dont want to you need to pull yourself out of this rut stop feeling sorry for yourself for whatever happened and live lifelike you dont need a man even though everybody would surely like one to make some kind of security for themselves. try to be independednt develop a new hobby. go to the gym. keep yourself busy. and i assure you the pain will subside...
I think I am going to cry, not for you, but because you just slaughtered the English language.
There is nothing that you can do. You have to let it go.
If it Happens Darling.....thats just life....things change...You cant sit and be depressed about him moving....
I went thru the same thing when My Ex Boyfriend moved away to California....I cried for days on end about it...
But as I got Older and I started to understand that People move away and there is no way possible for me to sit and be depressed EVERYTIME someone I love or loved moves
Your generation has it way better than the older one
we would have to sit and wait for a phone call or Letter
you guys Have Email now...Voice Chat....Cams
If you too truly love each other no amount of miles can keep you from showing it
well calm down nd if you still love him then you NEED to talk to him....i was in the same situation nd i found out he still felt the same way..you at least dont want to lose a friend...just try talking nd tell him how you feel
how old r u
get over it
your too young,
just study now
It's never good to keep something inside that has hurt you so much. You need to keep your dignity and self respect. You are the one who draws the line around you that others can't cross. You decide what treatment you will tolerate and what is unacceptable. You will probably feel better if you confront him, forgive him, and then find some peace between you before he moves away. You don't have to ';move on'; until you feel ready. And you may not believe it right now, but you WILL feel ready, in time.
Do not keep that inside and not say anything to them about it. I think you should really sit down and talk to both your best friend and your ex. In my opinion, too many people take other people and things for granted in their lives. Do not let them move away and still let those unspoken words sit on your chest for the rest of your life. People move in different directions all the time and never see each other again or they try to keep in touch but things get rushed in their lives and they don't have time for each other and the distance between them anymore. I have a friend that ended up losing contact with her friend from high school and then found out from watching the news that her friend died in a house fire and she was sad because she never got the chance to talk to her again. The best solution to your question is to get everything off of your chest as soon as possible. No matter how good or bad the things are that you need to tell them let them know everything and no matter what never grow upart from them or lose contact.
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