Thursday, July 29, 2010

Need a little girl advice/help?

So I met this girl when I was 14 years old, and we had a crush on each other then, but we were both young. We continued on with our lives and now I ran into her recently and we have been talking everyday, all day, for the past 3 weeks. (we are both 18 now.) Hanging out, watching movies, etc. She was head over heels for me, but I wasn't into her as much as she was me. Recently she has been falling away from me, not wanting to hang out as much, not speaking as much, and it's really starting to bother me. I realized that I do like her more than I thought and I'm afraid that she isn't feeling the same anymore. She seems like she may be playing hard to get also... but It's really hard to tell. What should I do? Should I be straight up with her and ask what's up?Need a little girl advice/help?
She might have just gotten tired of waiting for you to come around so she's backing off.





I suggest you just tell her how you're feeling. It's the best thing to do in this situation since she thinks you're not into her (why she's backing off). Tell her how you feel and that you want to give being together a try. See what she says and go from there.Need a little girl advice/help?
Yeah be straight up and ask her what is up, maybe she was hoping you would ask her out and maybe the relationship would progress or maybe not. The only way to be sure is to ask her what she is feeling and let her know how you feel about her.
Just straight out ask her if she thinks that you two may become a couple. You need to know how to continue, and if she isn't feeling it and you do something to make her uncomfortable because you don't know any better, then you may lose a friend.
She seems like she tried to get you to ask her out on a date and stuff...but you didn't. So she's giving you some time. You need to just hurry hurry and make a move. Tell her how you feel.





Ask her out (: Tell her you miss her x] Sweet stuff enhance the goodness Lol
she s probably disappointed that you guys didn't go out and she given up kiss her by surprise or ask her out or you should be straight with her she still likes you she just got tired of waiting for you to like her to and stuff hope this helps.
Yes, yes and yes. Ten to one because you knew she once cared a lot you played it cool this time around.


She may not want to be the one who cares the most again.


Show her and tell her, that she won't be.
Being honest is Always the best answer.


Be blunt and ask.


Playing games will only lead to more confusion.


Take her to a place that is quiet where you can just focus. Turn off your phone.


And just ask.





Anita
Yea but just don't do it with the atatude just say hey whats up in a gental voice and ask her to the movies again or somethin
maybe shes laying back a little because she saw you werent as into her. I say talk to her about how you both feel or maybe act more into her (now that you realize you really do like her) and see how she responds.
you messed up a bit but yeah talk to her tell her how your feeling then ask her whats up sometimes windows don't stay open as long as we like
* Well maybe she is afraid that she is gna fall for you again and loose you again ? MAKE a move Already !!! *
you are to little to date
yeah if you want her go get her
yeah i would tel her how you feel about her and that you need to know weather she wants to take your friendship further. she might be playing hard to get but she also might not want to mess up what she feels for you if she does feel any thing for you. as when You spend A lot of time with someone it can start to get hard as your with the same person all the time. that's doesn't mean she doesn't want to be with you it just means she needs her space just like you do. so i would say go for it and good luck.
if you like her then ask her out.





If you don't care for her that way then just be her friend and let her distance herself from you so she can get over you and look for someone who wants her.





No game playing, no head tripping, no wanting to keep her around to stroke your ego when your ';something better'; isn't available.





Just be honest with yourself about what your motivations are and then be honest with her about where you stand.





and don't drag your feet. She's on her way out and if you want something with her you need to let her know now.





Good Luck.
I've seen this one so many times when I was younger. Unfortunately, it is all about the game. It sounds like she was truly interested in you when you guys met up again and started hanging out. The problem now is that you gave her too much attention. If you do that too early in a relationship the other party will loose interest. You need to distance yourself now. The only way you might pull this one back is if you play it cool. Don't act needy, wait a while and let her contact you. If she doesn't then it might be too late but you can try to give her a call after a couple weeks. If you do get the spark back then you have to still take it slow. Make her wonder if you really like her and make her work a little.

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