Saturday, July 31, 2010

I need sum serious advice!!!help!!!?

my friend and her fiance are having a problem...shes been talking about it for awhileeeeeeeeeeeeeeee nowwwwwww-lol-her fiance masturbates atleast 10 times a day..and he talks about it all the time! he watches porn on a daily basis but constantly talks about it~he tells everybody about their sex life-talks about sex CONSTANTLY!! Then last week i went out with them to dinner-and he fkn TRYED to show me a pic of some girl that was 14 who sent him a nude pic of her chest-stupid mother ******!! I was very upset-considering that im a survivor of sexual abuse-i knocked the phone out of his hand~-i need advice for my friend-what can i tell her-shes soppose to get married to him!! by the way she has a daughter-which is my husbands daughter!!please someone give me sum advise-i refuse to turn my head the other way-this guy comes from a wealthy-happy lifestyle-great family-but i dont give a ****-im worried for my friend and my step daughter-my friend does know shes thinks she can change himI need sum serious advice!!!help!!!?
Well congrats on you for being a good friend. You need to explain to your friend that there is a such thing as being addicted to sex, which he sounds like it is. And to make matters worse he is starting to prey on young girls which isn't good. And who is to say that he won't eventually hurt the little girl. She needs to give him an ultimatum....either he get some help for his problem or she is going to leave him and this way she can really see if he loves her more than sex and if he doens't she shouldn't be with him anyway. Hope it helps!I need sum serious advice!!!help!!!?
Honey, it sounds like she doesnt know the whole deal! I would say she should support him and get him some counseling. But if he is looking at underage girls she needs to ditch that creep!
advice: you are F'd in the head with this one...see as SHRINK and get the pills!!!
he is a sexual deviant and she should watch out for her children sounds like he's over the top!
ok ten times a day ? .. he must be addicted to sex ... if your friend thinks she can change him after they are married she is probably wrong , most people that arent willing to change something before marriage sure arent going to change after marriage , the big thing here is him chatting/talking to 14 year olds and having them send him pictures, thats just wrong , your friend surely cant believe that its okay to do that , id be afraid that he would try it on her daughter in the near future if he hasnt already ... i dont care what kind of family he comes from it doesnt make it ok that he is getting off by little girls.
IT sounds like you have an issue with a relationship that you aren't even part of. If she is ok with his sexual preferences, it's none of your business.

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