I need guy advice? help?

ok, so my best friend is a guy.


and he has this girl he really likes, (as a best friend and as everything else since he calls her perfect)


now, i don't know her, but she goes to his school and she has a boyfriend. she even asked my friend if it was alright that she go out with him, and all he wanted was for her to be happy so he said yes.


he has never told her how he feels about her, and it sucks for me to see him like this


is there ANY advice? like, hes hurting on the inside but everyone in this picture is still friends so nobody hates each other or anything


how do i make him feel betterI need guy advice? help?
Well...he should have been honest from the beginning. He can tell her how he really feels...but then that's going to cause a lot of problems. He may ruin some good friendships. She has a boyfriend...which he was okay with...so she's off the market. I'm not sure if being honest with her now is going to solve anything...she might be upset that he wasn't honest with her in the first place...or she may look at all this as someone who doesn't want her to be happy. He may lose her as a friend...and then never get to be with her on a more romantic level. Girls are real big on honesty. My advice would be for him to continue to be her friend...and once things goes sour between her and this other guy...this is high school after all....then he can step in. Even if he would be honest w/ her now there is no reason or proof that she would dump this guy because he wants to be with her. In fact she might resent him for it. He needs to get over being miserable....do other things with his life...and then be standing in the shadows waiting for the inevitable.I need guy advice? help?
I've been in a situation like this before and it sucks. Eventually I bit the bullet and asked her out. Even though she didn't say yes, it was still a lot better just to get it off my chest and not constantly be fretting over it. It didn't ruin our friendship or anything, so I've always considered it a net victory. I hope this prospective helps with your trouble.
If you think he needs help, then you can see that girl and probably tell her about this. If you discuss this with your friend then may be he will feel bad and may not be able to talk to her on this issue.





You are a girl and can better understand that girls attitude and reaction along with a understanding for feelings of your friend.
Theres reall ynot much you can do, he will get over her sooner or later, and everythign will be good.


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but yeh, he will get over her. ive been there.
Interest him in other girls, take him out and introduce him to some other pretty girls, i don't know you could through him a party and invite everyone
maybe you should have ur guy friend tell the other girl how he feels!


like if he likes her she shlould know !


And if it borthers him to hear her talk abut her boyfriend maybe he should let her know the 411!
You can seduce him yourself and turn it into a sensual adventure. That will cheer him up.
encourage him to tell her how he feels , this is the only way he could feel better whether she agrees about how he feels or not .
you can tell her cant you .. just give her your number get her to ring you .. good luck.
He has to be A MAN and tell her.
tell him she's taken and to man up =/





man law number 5 don't mess around with another man's lady =[
Ask him out he will feel better.
Maybe you two should hook up.
Why don't you go out with him.
Be there for him, have fun with him....Keep his mind off her! x
i was one but i become a women now
show him ur titys that always makes me happy
Ok, your friend can't tell this girl that he likes her at the moment as she has a boyfriend (which will just cause mess and fall-outs).





I think you're friend should wait until the girl he likes and her boyfriend are finished, and then tell her how he feels. The worst the girl can do is reject him, and it's better that he knows how she feels about him :)





At the moment (until you're friend's crush and her BF break up), all you can do is be supportive of your friend. Just spend lots of time with him, and make sure he's focused on other things than her! It'll all work itself out in the end, don't worry :)
Comforting him is a good first step. But the only real way to douse this fire is for him to tell the girl whether she is still in a relationship or not. That way, he has tried all that he can to achieve the slim chance of success. Don't give up even the slightest chance. If she says no, at least he got an answer and she knows. If she says yes, then it's a happy ending. But if he doesn't tell her, he'll never know.





I've been in the position of the guy. I knew the one I liked is interested in somebody else. But I don't feel as bad because I still told her. She said to be friends. It hurts, but it doesn't hurt as much as seeing the one you like with somebody else every single day.