I really need advice help?

i worked with this guy jimmy at the mall and he asked me out we went out a few times and he told me he only wants to be friends and has no feeling for me and doesn't want to date me he said it alot, hes in the army too so b4 he was being deployed he was fooling around and kept saying things like me giving him a ******** and having sex and stuff like that an i kept thinking he was joking then we went in his car and he really wanted ot have sex so i told him to go to a hotel if he was really serious.so he took me to a hotel i ended up paying for it an i was a Virgin so i was scared he took a shower and then he laid down next to me and told me he just wanted to **** an nothing to happen relationship wise so i told him i changed my mind i dont want my first time to be like that an he called me crazy and said never talk to me again if i dont have sex wit him so i said ok and i was scared and it hurt and i dont like him and the condom broke 3 times and im pretty sure im pregnant an hes still deployed an ive talked to him on the phone but im mad at him i cant seem to face him exotically when he gets back i didnt even want to have sex and now im knocked up maybe an i dont no if i should tell him i just im scared and dont no what to think.I really need advice help?
I think that he did that on purpose. Totally rude to say, I know, but yeah...





Anyway, if you think you're pregnant, you should go get a professional pregnancy test, along with STD tests. You should also talk to him.





If you are having troubles speaking to him face to face, write a letter, and elaborate about what you feel and then ask him to come see you. If you can't do a letter, text it to him, email it to him, leave him a voice mail. Trust me, it'll be hard through those ways too, but at least you won't have to speak face to face.





Though if you tell him to come to your home or meet him somewhere to talk, make sure to bring a friend, because if he doesn't want to be a father, he could end up trying to hurt you. So take my advice, try to talk to him, and also get family/friend/medical help as well.





Also, if you don't want the baby, please don't do abortion, give it up for adoption, so that it can still have a life.





And if he refuses to work with you to help you through the (maybe) pregnancy, then bring government into the conflict, because he will need to pay child support.I really need advice help?
I am so sorry tell him that you demand money for an abortion and he should get the picture.
Do you know his name. If so you can make his tail pay. You can't report him for rape because you consented it. You know he's in the army so he'll have the funds to pay for baby. You know if a guy doesn't want to be with you don't just have sex with him just because he wants it. That was a very dumb move never let that happen again. Hopefully you're a teenager or something. Leanr from that mistake and next time if you're not married at least be in a relationship.